9 Parenting Tricks That Were Once Socially Unacceptable but Are Now Completely Normal

Psychology
10/23/2024
9 Parenting Tricks That Were Once Socially Unacceptable but Are Now Completely Normal

Parenting norms have evolved over time. For instance, there was a time when letting kids speak up or allowing a bit of chaos at home was seen as unacceptable. So, we decided to explore some parenting practices that used to be frowned upon but have now become completely normal.

Setting personal boundaries matters more than trying to please everyone.

There’s nothing wrong with kids expressing their emotions. Why not take the time to listen first?

The first panel is still the correct response.

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It’s perfectly fine for parents to let go of the fear of asking for help.

Dismissing your child’s feelings out of fear of spoiling them is a thing of the past.

Dinner time is for talking. I like that they're at a table and not eating separately in front of the TV. That is so important.

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Your child isn’t a bad person if they don’t show empathy right away. Showing them empathy can help them learn to be empathetic.

For busy parents, spending quality time with their kids is often more valuable than cooking elaborate meals.

So why not spend that time with your kids teaching them to bake a pie? Or cut up vegetables? Or make soup? All better than sitting in front of the TV and certainly better than just teaching them to dial for take out.

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You don’t need to tell your children that older people are always right.

Just 'thank you' will do. There really isn't any need to be rude just because the older woman was being a busy body. All this did was teach the little girl to be rude.

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A baby can’t be spoiled, but it’s important to find a balance without overindulging them.

You will. Learning how to self soothe is part of their development.

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Kids copy their parents, so enjoy joyful moments together.

Parenting is a unique journey, especially for first-timers. Since kids learn about the world from their parents, raising an independent child means ignoring society’s “rules” and focusing on proper guidance. Our actions and words can shape who our children become.

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if you want your child to not respect you at all do all of these

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You have to show respect to get respect, and that applies to kids and teenagers as well. If they don't show respect, they don't get respect.

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But why are the children of yesteryear more emotionally stable and resilient than these modern kids who are raised so nicely

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Because "modern kids" have no filters and give in to their impulses. They don't learn restraint and patience, and only know/want instant gratification.

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You do realize the majority of the people changing it up, the ones this article is referring to, are the very same "yesteryear children" you speak of, right?? It's through their own experiences, while growing up, that they learned what doesn't work and how NOT to do things. Now change has been deemed a necessity, and new ways to parent are popping up left, right, and center. We KNOW we want to do better by, and better for, our own kids. And when you know better, shouldn't the goal then always be to do better?

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Except when you think you know more than a teacher with a master's degree and 20 years of experience... and you've got a GED.

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With today's attitude towards parenting we're going to need a lot more prisons,

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