Unlike her Amazon tribe girlfriends, the modern alpha woman is secure enough to acknowledge that she needs a man in her life.
Bright Side made a list of things that a man should know if he aspires to build a balanced long-lasting relationship with a strong woman. At the end, we have a cute bonus about the little secret of every alpha girl.
An alpha woman is constantly moving higher. She can’t stay still and wait for her partner to catch up with her intense and dynamic lifestyle. It’s important to move at the same speed and to neither be too pushy nor trail behind. She has an agenda, she knows what needs to be done, and she isn’t afraid of hard work. So just keep up with her pace, and you’ll be all right.
The alpha woman is looking for a man who is absolutely independent, both financially and psychologically. He must have a healthy ego and his own opinion, hobbies, and friends. What they are looking for is an equal partner, someone to walk with, not behind or in front of.
Success is the credo of a strong woman, and she knows that the right attitude is half of success. She tries to cheer up everyone around her and wishes for the same in return. So leave your nagging at the front door, cheer her on toward her goals, and celebrate with her when she gets there.
Strong women have a deep appreciation for their freedom, and they truly appreciate guys who respect that. They can’t stand being restricted in any way and won’t allow anyone to do so.
If a strong woman is about to make a mistake, her partner will tell her that if she behaves like an asshole he will call her out on it. Because that’s what she needs. An alpha woman needs her ego to be checked once in a while, but it should be done with tact and without being a jerk.
These women want to be challenged. They want to compete with their partner intellectually, physically, and emotionally. Every day. Otherwise, they will soon be bored and indifferent. Her partner should be a fighter who is secure enough in his own abilities to be gracious in victory and a good sport in defeat.
Being constantly on top is hard and stressful, and that’s when her partner should know how to make her smile. He is expected to intelligently tease her and be teased back. A strong woman loves sarcasm, but she knows that her man feels very secure about himself and she is not afraid to hurt his feelings.
Alpha women are still humans. And, more importantly, they are still women. Independent and ambitious, but women. They still want to be loved and to be happy. They love cuddles, and they appreciate it when their partner shows his affection.
Just like any other girl, the alpha woman has fears, hopes, and dreams, and she wants to be with a man to whom she can tell all of those things and show how vulnerable she can be. She also prefers to trust her partner rather than control him because she doesn’t want to get bogged down by the drama of a relationship where the man can’t be trusted to be on his own.
The best support for a strong woman during hard times is actually doing something with her. It doesn’t matter if that is a first swimming class or skydiving. The man who not only respects your goals but achieves them with you is the perfect match for a strong woman.
A strong woman realizes that she can’t know everything, but she is trying to. So she needs a partner who will gently teach her something new every day — without lecturing her. For that, her partner should always learn something new by himself and stay informed about everything from atomic energy to cute kitty memes.
No matter how strong and independent a woman is, she is still a woman. She can foolishly fall in love at first sight even if the man is far from what she expected. But, being an alpha woman, she will still be the one who will make the decision and rule the relationship in her own independent womanly way.