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i was married in 1978. My newborn son died in 1979 and 4 months later i had surgery for cancer. 1980 i had another son who was healthy but the toll on my physical and mental health was great. Less than 2 years later. I find naked pictures (Polaroid) of my friend taken by my husband and visa versa. it was because I wasn't as "available" to him.

we "worked things out' in other words, I gave in until I was reviewing tapes of a family trip to Disney and found he'd taped him and her over the hall of presidents. I kicked him out. We did the counseling thing and he lied like a rug during the sessions and eventually negotiated his way back home.

A little over 10 yrs ago and with updated tech cell phones hes was still carrying on with this woman. he was gone for the weekend and I left lock stock and barrel. They are still together and I am alone but happier. we are not legally divorced yet because of joint property and major health issues but we are friends and I care for them but love is not in the equation.

Counselling and hard work on my part I began to understand co-dependency and damage that can ensue from it.
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I feel so sorry for you :/ you deserve someone who loves you. Don't lower yourself to someones league. The road isn't always as hard as it is now, hang in there and things will go your way sooner or later ❤

My parents got divorced and later on they got back together but things didn't work out so they broke up again, now it turns out my dad only got back with my mom so he didn't have to take care of me and my sister and brother.

It really sucks and it really hurts but that's life right? At least that's what I keep telling myself in order to feel better.
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I hope for you both that positive things are ahead!
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I hope it's better with you now, guys!
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