I'm thinking maybe your wife is overreacting.....how do you know your daughter did this and it wasn't her jealous step mother? You chose a female over your blood. That says a LOT about YOU.....
I Had to Choose Between My Pregnant New Wife and My Daughter
When Ethan remarried, tensions flared as his new wife entered the family dynamic. The situation became so strained that Ethan faced an agonizing decision: choosing between his pregnant wife and his teenage daughter. Ultimately, he distanced himself from his daughter for years. Now, yearning to reconnect and meet his grandson, Ethan’s attempt took an unexpected and dramatic turn. Here, he shares his story with us.
Here is Ethan’s letter:


Hi Ethan! Thank you for sharing your story. We’ve prepared some tips that can help you navigate through this situation.
Rebuild communication with your wife.
Your wife feels betrayed and unprotected, so rebuilding trust is essential. Apologize for putting her in this position and acknowledge her fears without defensiveness. Reassure her that your priority is her and your son, and express your commitment to finding a solution that respects her feelings.
Ask for an honest, calm discussion to address her concerns and show her that you value her and your family above all.
Confront your daughter with firm boundaries.
Your daughter’s behavior needs addressing but with empathy and boundaries. Calmly explain the harm her actions have caused and make it clear that threatening your family is unacceptable. Express your willingness to rebuild a relationship, but only if it’s based on mutual respect.
Suggest family therapy as a way to address unresolved pain and establish a healthier dynamic.
Engage a third-party mediator.
Given the emotional intensity, a neutral mediator can help navigate this situation. A counselor or family mediator can facilitate discussions with your wife and daughter, creating a safe space to express concerns and find common ground.
This professional guidance can help clarify motives, diffuse tension, and establish fair boundaries for everyone involved.
Separate time for grandson and family.
Propose a clear separation between time spent with your grandson and your immediate family to ease tensions. Arrange visits with your grandson independently of your daughter, ensuring it doesn’t interfere with your wife and son’s sense of security.
This approach can help you maintain a connection with your grandson while giving your family the space they need to heal.
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Comments
You are a horrible father. Your daughter only had you as her mother was dead. She was still just a child and you tossed her aside like trash. You are disgusting.

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