6 Things You Should Never Do for Your Man
Every woman wants to have a happy relationship. However, very often they take on the man’s role in their marriage, and some go so far as to sacrifice their happiness in the name of love.
We at Bright Side have compiled a list of 6 things a woman should never do for the man she loves.
Attempt to solve all his problems
Even if your man has some financial issues or problems at work, you should never try to rescue him from all his troubles by yourself. By doing so, you will end up living with an indecisive and helpless partner who is afraid to take responsibility for his future. Always remember that you’re a woman, not a workhorse who can handle everything.
Give him expensive presents all the time
It’s best to give each other gifts that are equal in value. Giving expensive presents to your loved one, especially when he can’t allow himself to return the favor, can make him feel awkward and bad about himself. Moreover, if you’re dealing with an unscrupulous man, he can just use your love to get what he wants.
Be a shoulder for him to cry on
Unlike women, men don’t fall in love with girls feeling sorry for them. Remember that just because you’re always there for him emotionally and spiritually doesn’t mean that your relationship is deep and fulfilling.
A wise woman supports and inspires her husband to new achievements. And this really is one of the secrets of a happy relationship.
Say "What did I tell you?"
Even if you’re 100% right, there is nothing more provocative than the phrase "What did I tell you?" By saying this, you show your man that you are smarter than he is, and this is tactless. Every man needs to feel significant and important. Asserting your dominance over him will hardly help you to build a harmonious relationship.
Give up your personal life and career
Just because a woman has found the love of her life doesn’t mean she has to give up her friends and career. Unfortunately, if you sacrifice your personal pleasures in order to care for your family, your sweetheart may lose interest in your relationship one day. The more varied your life outside your family is, the more your spouse will appreciate you. But always remember: extremes are dangerous.
Change your appearance
It is perfectly natural for a woman to want to look nice for the man she loves. But if your man pressures you to change your look drastically, you don’t need him.
At the same time, if your sweetheart asks you about something you can easily agree to, don’t be stubborn. It won’t cause any damage to your relationship and, on the contrary, it will strengthen your emotional connection.