10 Workplace Moments That Prove Compassion Is the Secret Behind Great Leadership

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08/20/2026
10 Workplace Moments That Prove Compassion Is the Secret Behind Great Leadership

Real workplace kindness isn’t taught in seminars or presentations. It shows up when a manager notices you’re struggling on their own, or a coworker quietly backs you up when you can’t handle something. Making your day a little easier without expecting anything back. These 10 stories are about compassion and empathy at work, and how a little understanding can make a big difference.

  • I have this little bracelet that my dad gave my mom when they first started dating. Since my dad passed away before I was born, I have always cherished this bracelet.
    Well one day while working at a big financial institution this bracelet broke. I placed it into my desk drawer and forgot about it overnight. Turns out the janitors cleaned out all the drawers and accidentally threw my bracelet away.
    When I arrived the next day, I panicked and looked through all the trash cans I could find until it was determined it must be in the dumpsters out back. My boss and several coworkers rolled up their sleeves and climbed into the dumpster to find it, mind you they are all in suits and dress shoes.
    About an hour later they all championed into the building chanting “we found it” covered in grime. I come from a rough background and I hadn’t ever felt this level of kindness before. This changed me, and ever since I try to always go out of my way for others (especially for the seemingly small things).
  • I had just ended a 3-year relationship in a city I knew nobody in, started a new job and worked on my birthday. I had hit it off with the lady who trained me, and when the HR manager stopped by and wished me a happy birthday, she seemed surprised I never mentioned it.
    I explained I was in a bad place mentally and just told her I didn’t feel like celebrating. On her lunch break, she went out and got me a single fancy cupcake from the grocery store up the street. She barely knew me. I literally clutched that cupcake in the break room and sobbed.
    Plot twist: her son ended up working with us a few months later. We dated, got pregnant and I in return gave her a grandson. 🤷‍♀️
  • My partner was dealing with a health issue, and suddenly I needed to spend more time at home. My commute had become exhausting. But I did not say anything at work because I didn’t want to explain my personal situation.
    Then out of nowhere my manager asked if everything was okay. She said she noticed I seemed more tired than usual. I told her what was going on, without getting into too much detail. She listened and then asked, “What would make things easier?” I honestly didn’t know.
    She suggested I work remotely three days a week and said we’d see how it went. I was able to keep doing my job without feeling like I had to choose between work and my family. The choice definitely made my life easier back then.
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  • I had a coworker about ten years ago. We became work friends but he was moving to another state. So on his last day, he brought and gave me an iPod nano (back when they were fairly new) completely filled with different music that we had talked about or listened to together.
    No one had ever done something that thoughtful for me before. I could have cried. If you’re out there, Gabe, that’s something that I will always remember.
  • After the recessions and our house foreclosure, my family and I were homeless during the summer between my fourth and fifth grade of school. When school started back up, I went to live with some family friends who clothed, fed and loved me as one of their own.
    Not only that, a few weeks before moving in with them, one of my mom’s coworkers heard about our homelessness and secretly organized a fundraiser for my parents out of the state park they were living in.
    Along with about $1,000, they got me a book bag filled to the brim with all the school supplies I would need for the year. Still brings me to tears thinking about it. I just graduated high school this May, and I’ll never forget it.
  • I had a big presentation coming up for senior leadership. And I spent days getting everything ready. A coworker who had used the meeting room before came in early for another reason and noticed that my setup wasn’t going to work well.
    The text on the screen was too small, the seating made some slides hard to see, and the presentation clicker wasn’t connecting properly. She fixed all three things and sent me a quick message saying, “Checked the room and made a couple of adjustments.” That was it. She was gone before I arrived.
    I probably wouldn’t have noticed any of it until everyone was already sitting there. She had simply thought about what the room would look like from my side and fixed the problems before they became mine.
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  • My first job was working at a grocery store. One night, someone puked on the floor while we were pretty busy. I as a “utility clerk” (bagger) was responsible for cleaning this up but there were a ton of lanes to bag for.
    My front end manager got the mop and bucket and cleaned it up. After it slowed down, I thanked her for doing it. She said, “Never be in a position to tell others to do things you wouldn’t do yourself”.
    I remember that sentiment to this day and use that mindset in my management. Such a great lesson I will never forget.
  • It was my first day in my first ever internship. An internship I was grateful to have. I’m supposed to bring my own laptop since I won’t be designated a computer.
    So, first day, I bring the laptop out of my bag and naturally, I look for my charger next only to realize I left it at home. I live more than an hour away. I thought to myself “how stupid can you really be?”
    My panic raised from zero to 55. Us interns all share a long table with our boss and I sit exactly right next to him. My elbow is just a foot away from his elbow.
    I embarrassingly told my co-intern I don’t have a charger for my laptop and I can’t start any work without it (my battery charge will only last for less than an hour).
    She offered me to try her charger and see if it works. She has a Dell while I have an Asus. While the cable was significantly loose, the charger still works. She let me take turns with her in using her charger.
    That was around 4 years ago. I still remember what she did from time to time. I am still very, very, very much grateful.
  • I was applying to graduate school and needed a reference from someone outside my department. I mentioned the problem to my manager once during a conversation about my applications.
    A few weeks later, she told me the CEO had agreed to write one. I had no idea she had been working on it. She approached him more than once and handled the whole thing herself. I hadn’t asked her to do that, and it certainly wasn’t something she had to do as my manager.
    She knew how much the program meant to me and decided to help. I got the reference, got into the program, and still think about that whenever someone asks what good leadership looks like. She didn’t just manage my work. She cared about where I wanted to go next.
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  • At an interview, a man asked me about the year gap in my resume. I told him I had a baby. He rolled his eyes. “This is a senior role. Go home. Be a mom.” I asked him to give me a chance. He laughed.
    I went numb when he looked at me and said, “Only if you agree to no paid leaves for a year. No exceptions for emergencies. Your child is your responsibility, not ours.” I was desperate to get back to work, but not THIS desperate. He was belittling me any chance he got. I walked out.
    A woman who was walking by asked me, “How did it go?” with a friendly smile. I was frustrated, so I told her, “The company doesn’t want to hire me because I’m a mom. My skills don’t matter here.” I knew she worked there but what I didn’t know was that she was the senior HR.
    She told me to wait in her office for 10 minutes. The man who interviewed me came and apologized. I got an offer to attend an actual, impartial interview the next day. I got the job!
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