10 People Who Crocheted Gifts With a Whole Story Stitched Into Them
In 2020, researchers Pippa Burns and Rosemary Van Der Meer published “Happy Hookers,” a study of more than 8,000 crocheters. Nearly 9 in 10 said crochet made them feel calmer, and many said it helped them through tough times.
But anyone who has ever received a handmade gift knows it does something more: it keeps people close. A blanket for Grandma, a scarf under the Christmas tree, a hat spun from a beloved dog’s fur: stitch by stitch, they hold family love, laughter, kindness, and sometimes even a secret.
- My mom crocheted a scarf for everyone in the family, knowing it was her last Christmas. We celebrated that year at my sister’s house in Raleigh, North Carolina, with all eight scarves folded under the tree. Mine was burgundy, made with soft Bernat yarn, but the stitches looked strange. Some were short, others noticeably longer. I assumed Mom’s hands had simply been getting tired.
Months after she passed, my friend Brian, whose hobby since college has been ham radio, was having coffee with me at a little café near downtown Raleigh when he stared at the scarf and asked, “Why does your scarf say ‘I hid’?” Turns out, the short and long stitches were Morse code.
All eight of us brought our scarves to my brother’s house and laid them across his dining-room table. When Brian helped us decode them in order, they said:
“I hid letters for each of you. Check under the piano.”
At Mom’s house, we looked beneath her old upright Baldwin piano and found a cardboard box taped to the underside. There were eight envelopes inside, each with a name and a future occasion written on the front.
Mine said, “For Sarah’s wedding day.” I opened it on my wedding day last June. The first line inside was: “If he’s not nice to you, I will haunt him.”
Sounds like Mom had a sense of humor! But then, I would, too!
What a beautiful thing to do.
And I don't blame her. Haunting him if hes not nice
To you.
Must have taken her ages to do the morse code in stitches.
Very talented lady.
“If he’s not nice to you, I will haunt him” Your mom sounds like she was an absolute legend.
“If he’s not nice to you, I will haunt him” is SUCH a mom thing to write, right?!
I’d behave if I were her husband. I’m not about to test whether the crochet curse is real. 😂
I SO LOVE the humor in it. She knew her children would be grieving, so she left them something that would make them laugh many many years later. Precious
Beautiful piece ❤️ of work
I’d probably frame the scarf instead of wearing it after that.
Way cool
That's neat
- I did this shawl in two months and spent every second of my free time to finish it for my sister’s wedding.
That shawl is so pretty and original! x
- One of my bros and his wife had a daughter, and I decided to crochet a first birthday gift. This was one of my first crochet projects. They sent me 1 video of her playing with it. I’m melting.
- My husband was furious when he caught me teaching our 13-year-old son, Ethan, my favorite hobby: crochet. We had a basket of Lion Brand yarn between us, and Ethan was working with a 5.5 mm crochet hook.
“You’ll make him a laughingstock! He should be playing sports!” He tossed the blanket aside.
Our son picked it up, pointed at the navy-blue ’17′ stitched into one corner, and said, “Dad, this was for Grandma. She always says her body might be 80, but in her soul she’s still 17. She’s always cold at night. You always tell us to take care of her.”
That was the end of that. Grandma showed the blanket to every single visitor for a month, bragging about her grandson’s kindness.
The dad should be encouraging him, not insulting him, hope he apologised and grovelled
- I made a cappuccino for my coffee-obsessed toddler cousin. Whenever he sees his grandmother drink her morning cup, he begs her to share. She will put a few splashes in his special coffee cup and fill the rest with milk. I bought him an espresso-making toy for his birthday last year, and he plays with it all the time. He is such a little old man. He has lots of little grandfatherly habits, but his coffee obsession is a big part of his personality right now.
- My mom made me a temperature blanket for the year I was born. She used one crocheted row for every day, choosing the color according to the temperature recorded in our hometown. Cold winter days were navy and pale blue. Spring was green. Hot summer days moved through orange and deep red.
I used it for 30 years without really looking at it. Last winter my daughter Sophie spread it across our living-room floor and asked why one part was gray. There were seven rows of dull gray, right in the middle of all the July reds and oranges.
I called Mom. There was a long pause. Then she told me those rows represented the week I was born. I had spent those days in the NICU, while she and my dad went back and forth between home and the hospital.
Later, when she finally returned to the blanket, she couldn’t remember the temperatures and didn’t want to look them up. So she used gray. “Those were the days I couldn’t think about anything except whether you were going to be okay,” she told me.
I had never known. Mom said it was a week the family simply never wanted to talk about afterward.
- These were crafted by my fiancée over the past few months on the topic “escapist garden.” Very, very proud, and thought you might appreciate them too!
what does Craig say on Strictly ... A MA ZZ
- Our family dog, Biscuit, was a 70-pound golden retriever mix and a giant fluffy disaster who left pale fur on the sofa, the rugs, our clothes, and somehow even inside kitchen drawers. What none of us knew was that my grandma Barbara had been saving his fur in zip-top freezer bags in her attic for years.
Then she found a woman in Vermont whose hobby was spinning dog fur into yarn. Apparently it’s a real thing. The fiber is called chiengora.
Grandma mailed her several bags of Biscuit’s undercoat, and a few months later, a box came back filled with soft cream-colored yarn. She crocheted a simple winter hat for each of us.
The hats are surprisingly warm. When they get damp from rain or snow, they even smell a tiny bit like Biscuit.
This is where I stopped and said WHAT 😂
- I crocheted this little budgie for someone whose bird recently passed.
- After our daughter Lucy said her first word, my husband recorded it on his iPhone. The word was “duck.” Three months later, he hung something on the nursery wall. My husband had taken the audio recording, turned it into a sound-wave image, and then crocheted the entire waveform stitch by stitch.
He used bright rubber-duck yellow cotton yarn, matching the little Munchkin bath duck Lucy carried everywhere. He’d learned crochet from YouTube in secret, at night, sitting in the car so I wouldn’t notice.
I genuinely thought he was seeing someone else. He was crocheting a duck sound wave.
A handmade gift often says what words can’t. There’s more kindness waiting for you, including a story about a crochet doll rescued from the trash that turned out to be one of the most loving gifts a grandmother ever made. Discover it here: 12 Stories About Crochet, Skiing, Puzzles, Birdwatching, and Other Hobbies That Became More Than a Pastime
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You never know what someone was thinking a lit while they made something. So precious! ❤️
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