lol reminds me of when I was a kid and this one girl let me sit with her group even tho nobody else would. she probably doesn't even remember it. i think about it all the time still
10 Moments That Teach Us Compassion Is Still the Quiet Superpower That Heals Hearts

We might not realize it, but when we are kind to people and give them our compassion we actually heal their hearts. We help them to believe that in this world we are living, empathy is not something that is rare. Research from Ohio State University demonstrated that performing acts of kindness improves well-being and social connection. Realizing that our small act of kindness gives happiness to people and improves their well being is the best reward that we can get.
- I once bought a gift card, a jug of water and some fruit for a person panhandling outside of a grocery store. It really wasn’t a huge deal but the dude who was parked right next to the guy and ignoring him the whole time said, “That was really nice of you.” I just responded that the guy was a part of our community and everyone needs compassion. Life is hard.
I remember when I was a child and my mom and brother and I only ate dinner because of a kind stranger who showed us that same compassion. I only hope I helped the man eat a yummy dinner and gave him the same feeling of value that stranger gave me so many years ago.
- Christmas Eve a couple years back. I had worked a shift at the hospital (not a doc or a highly paid person) and was trying my best to get to my family’s house about two hours away before dinner.
The breaks on my car just were not working right. It was snowing like crazy, and I was thinking there was no hope. I saw the local mechanic was still open so I pulled in and told him what was going on.
Half an hour or so later he came out and told me what was wrong and that he had gone ahead and fixed it. I asked him what I owed him for the work. He said get home to your family safe and have a merry Christmas. I felt like I was in a Hallmark movie. It is now the only place I will take my car.
- My son’s best friend couldn’t come to his bday, no money for a gift. I said no when he begged me to call his family, “It’ll embarrass them.” He snapped, “I wish you weren’t my mom.”
The next day, at the beginning of the party, my son handed me a box and insisted that I open it. He dared to invite his friend anyway. I just didn’t know it.
The box held a small crocheted rabbit, missing an ear, made by his nana years back. He gifted it to my son, the kindest friend he had, for making him feel like he belonged.
ok this made me think of my own kid honestly. she brought home a boy from her class last year, quiet kid, turns out he'd been sitting alone at lunch for weeks. i almost told her not this week we're tight on groceries. i didn't say it thank god
- I actually just quit my job yesterday because I realized that my managers were being intentionally rude and hurtful towards me and the higher ups didn’t care. One of the days I was just having a hard day and when my manager came down on me intentionally harder than was necessary I had a major panic attack.
Later that afternoon he admitted he wrote and reread the mean message but decided to hit send anyway because he knew I “wouldn’t like it.” I just realized in that moment I couldn’t be in a place that condoned that kind of behavior from employees. Said managers then begged me to stay after I put in my notice. Of course.
Later that evening I went to the grocery store and saw the same meat counter lady who is always there. She’s always so polite and friendly so because I was having a bad day I asked her, “How are you always just so gracious and friendly? I have never seen you otherwise and I love that I can always expect to see you here with a smile on.”
She instantly started to tear up and told me what I said meant so much because she was having an absolutely horrible day. I just thought again how much words can matter and felt even more justified leaving my job. You never know what a person is going through and your attitude and words can make or break someone’s day, so why not just be kind?
My go to response to people who are rude to me is, “You seem like you’re having a bad day, I hope being rude to me made you feel better about yourself.” Usually shuts people down pretty quickly.
Thats exactly how I think. You took those words
Right out of my head.
If people were kinder to eachother the world
Would be a better place.
Hope you find a job where you are valued
And not treated badly.
- When I was 15/16 I got dropped off at the mall by my parents to meet up with my girlfriend. We had a really small argument and she dumped me on the spot and literally ran into the arms of some guy she knew in front of me.
I was emotionally wrecked and I called my parents no less than 30 times and got no answer. I was about to start walking the 8 miles back home when a kid in the grade above me came up and asked what was wrong. He drove me home and made me feel like my life wasn’t over. Thank you, Brian.
- Once, while I was a poor student, my card got declined at the till at Kwik Save. I was buying a week’s worth of food, and I was humiliated, because there was a huge queue and I didn’t know what I was going to do.
It must have caused some commotion because a random bloke came over and paid for my shopping, on his card. He mentioned that it was something that someone had done for him, once, years before, and he wanted to repay that gesture.
It was probably only maybe £25 but it was an absolute lifesaver in that moment. It stayed with me, like, the kindness of that gesture; I have no idea who that person was.
I’m lucky to be able to say that, years later, when I had my first job, I was in Tesco’s and two lads at the till in front of me had the same problem. They were students, buying a bunch of food, and both of their cards were declined. They were just buying ~£20 of freeze dried noodles and other really basic foodstuffs. That gave me a chance to return the favour.
Wow, to be able to return the favor as you did was huge. Proud of you. Necessary things! You made the right decision 👏 Proud of you 👏
- A friend of mine and I were driving in the Everglades. We were leaving the park, and the sun was just setting. We were still like 10 miles from the entrance when we got a flat. My friend knew how to change the tire but couldn’t find her wheel lock.
No joke, a white van pulled up next to us and there were 2 guys in the front seat. They asked if we needed help. We city girls were of course wary and said no, even though we did. They drive off.
About ten minutes later, we actually start freaking out and the van comes back. The guy is like, “Look, you need help and even if you can get a signal it’s going to be hours before anyone can come help you.”
We agreed and then like a whole family they just poured out of the van. They were the nicest guys, changed our tire, and sent us on our way.
- When I was 25 and my second daughter started full-time school, I thought I'd try to go back to education and joined my local college (not university, this is in the UK).
I had left secondary school at 15. I'd lost my first daughter to bereavement at 19, and had pulled myself together but was still very mentally unwell. I wasn't expecting much to come from this college malarkey but it was something to do. I was much older than many of my classmates and just didn't feel right there.
But one of my tutors (sociology) sat me down once and told me how well I wrote. She told me that she had seen published articles not written as well as my essays and that I had a real chance at uni if I wanted. It started to change my whole outlook on myself.
I now have two degrees, work in my field for good money and I'm aiming to start a PhD as soon as I can find funding. Despite the occasional bout of imposter syndrome, my life is beyond what I ever imagined I could achieve. It just took one tutor to give me a spark of self confidence. Thanks Rhian, I'll ALWAYS remember you.
- At Long Island airport, on a dreary morning, I got a cup of coffee at Starbucks and, I don’t know how did that happen, may be I held it by the lid, the cup just fell spilling all the coffee (it was Grande Latte) on the floor.
I must have looked so miserable (chiefly not because of the loss of coffee but because everybody staring at me and me standing there stupidly in a puddle of coffee...).
So this one lady buys an extra Grande Latte and just gives it to me. She even said something to the effect of, “I hate to see your day starting like that.” It was sweet of her.

- Yesterday my 10-yo brought a stranger boy home. Money was tight. I snapped, “We have enough problems.” My son whispered, “Mom, he needs to be here.” The boy heard me and left.
Then I noticed something he’d dropped. I looked closer and my stomach dropped. I picked up the shiny object. It was a small bracelet my son had made weeks earlier and given him.
The boy was new at school and had been eating lunch alone because nobody wanted to sit with him. My son became his first friend and made the bracelet to remind him he wasn’t alone. I had never met him because their friendship only existed at school.
He came that night because his family was moving away and he wanted to say goodbye to the only person who chose him.
New @ school & already moving
Hope you reinvited the boy stright away,., surely one more mouth to feed on this one occasion wouldn't have broken your 'bank', or anyone else's,., everyone at the table could have had smaller amounts, and welcomed the boy,., poor lad, how sad for him,., but you should have never mouth off in front of your son and friend anyhow,., a little charm and gratefulness goes along way, even if food sometimes doesn't,., I hope you made amends, for your own sake as well,., a invited guest -who every invited them- should always feel comfortable and wanted,., and even when times are hard it always best to sail through with a positive attitude,.,
Totally agree
May you never be in the same stressful situation as this poor mother. When you are counting every last cent another mouth to feed does send you over the edge.
She also could’ve handled it better by not being loud enough for the child to hear her. I’d have gone without dinner to make a place at the table for him. And I know what it’s like to be in that position, but it’s a child for Christ sake
SHE UNDERSTANDS THAT. JUST POINTING OUT THAT A SMALL ACCOMODATION "USUALLY" WON'T "RUIN" THE CELEBRATION, OR BREAK THE BANK. THIS WOMAN WAS STRESSED, THIS COMMENTER WAS JUST EXPRESSING HER THOUGHTS. THAT IS WHAT THIS SITE IS ABOUT, NO?
WHEN I WAS 14 WE MOVED CITIES AFTER THE DIVORCE. MY BEST FRIEND OF THE PREVIOUS 4 YEARS SWORE WE WOULD STAY IN TOUCH. I DID, SHE DIDN'T. I HAVEN'T SEEN HER IN OVER 50 YEARS.
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Hope you apologised to that boy but don’t put too much blame on yourself we’ve all said the wrong things sometimes but be proud of your son because he has a beautiful heart
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i was that lonely kid once. one boy talked to me for like a month before his family moved. i never got to say bye properly. this story hit hard for that reason alone
Everybody has problems, most don't show them.
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