Harrison Ford and Calista Open Up About One Small Secret That Helped Them Stay Together for 22 Years

In a world where celebrity relationships often come with the burden of constant scrutiny and speculation, there’s one couple that has managed to keep their love alive and thriving for over two decades. Despite being married since 2010, after eight years of courtship, Flockhart, 59, and Ford, 81, still find themselves infatuated with each other. But what’s their secret?

It’s not about romantic moments.

Well, it’s not just about candlelit dinners or grand romantic gestures. Instead, it’s about something simpler yet profound — pulling pranks on each other.

In their cozy abode, Calista Flockhart holds the title of the «Scare Monster.» Known for her penchant for practical jokes, she can’t resist the temptation to playfully startle her beloved husband whenever the opportunity arises. Flockhart delights in seeing Ford’s startled reactions, which inevitably lead to fits of laughter for both of them.

Their home became a playground.

«I’m called the ‘Scare Monster’ in my house because I hide behind every corner,» Flockhart revealed in a candid moment with the New York Times. «And so Harrison will walk in, and then I’ll go, ‘Raaah!’ And he’ll go, ‘W-uy-aah!’ And then I die laughing.»

From slipping plastic spiders into ice cube trays to leaving rubber scorpions under the covers, their home is a playground for their mischievous antics. For them, it’s not just about the laughter. It’s about the bond they share through these light-hearted moments, a testament to their deep connection.

They have a balance between independence and interdependence.

But beyond the pranks and laughter lies a profound understanding of each other’s needs and desires. Flockhart embraced motherhood before meeting Ford. And she found solace in being a full-time mom to her son Liam, now 22. This contentment with domestic life allowed their relationship to flourish without the burden of competing ambitions.

Reflecting on their dynamic, Flockhart shared, «We’re very independent of each other in some ways, and probably incredibly codependent on each other in others.» This delicate balance between independence and interdependence has been the cornerstone of their enduring love story.

They are both introverts.

Their shared introverted nature also plays a significant role in their relationship. As self-proclaimed homebodies, they find joy in the simple pleasures of spending time together in the comfort of their own home. It’s in these quiet moments that their bond deepens, reaffirming their love for each other.

While Ford embarked on fatherhood for the second time with Flockhart, she witnessed his transformation into a devoted and caring parent. Despite his previous experiences, Ford embraced his role as a father with newfound maturity and dedication, earning Flockhart’s admiration and love.

«We’ve had to work. We’ve had our ups, we’ve had downs like everybody else — mostly ups, which is good — and we just stay together. He’s the person that I want to call when something happens. That knee-jerk thing where I have to call Harrison.»

In a world where relationships often falter under the glare of the spotlight, Calista Flockhart and Harrison Ford stand as a beacon of enduring love. They remind us that laughter, understanding, and a touch of mischief can keep the flames of passion burning bright, even after decades together.