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HAVE YOU EVER HAD "ALL THE TIME" IN THE WORLD, BUT NO WAY TO SPEND IT? THIS WOMAN IS FIERCELY HOLDING IN, TO A GREAT LOVE AND LOSS. 11 BLANKETS IN 5 DAYS, REALLY ISN'T THAT BIG A DEAL. YOU KNOW THE OLD SAYING: IDLE HANDS ARE THE DEVIL'S.....

What is wrong with you??

Oh my goodness you are clueless.

You are devil get help immediately please you

Even if this is your thought about the post, what possible good could ever come from putting it out there? It only shows how little compassion or care you have for this woman’s pain and loss. Why not just shut up?

Because she carried that baby for 9 months that's something so you can't understand I'm so sorry for her loss and I feel her sadness and she is moving forward.

She carried that baby for 9 months. What an unfeeling cretinous AH you are.

Obviously the person who commented knows nothing about the bond of the mother with a baby. Of course they are connected and bond immediately

Monica Jones, it evident that you have never experienced loss of a child and I pray to God you don't. Allow people to grieve in their own way in their own time. Stop being so judgemental and pray you never have to go through that.

I seriously hope you NEVER have a child if you are this heartless

Your calling the child she carried inside of her for nine months "nothing" You need Jesus.

People are doing thr mad emote bc you have no heart 🙄

You are a vile , horrible person, its you that needs help. Who gets onto the Internet to troll, only sad awful people like u. You are disgusting

How cruel are your words. A grieving mother is a mother whether she saw her infant or not. The father is cruel and heartless. She should be comforted not hurt by your cruelty. I know many women who lost their child and it hurts their heart and soul. You should be ashamed of yourself for what you said. You obviously have never known the pain of losing a child.

What?! You are extremely ignorant. You must be soulless. The woman carried a child. That is an instant bond. Her heartbreak was real. You need to see a heart surgeon and get a new one

Burning the blanket was cruel in my opinion.Why would anyone burn the blanket when there might be a possibility of a further pregnancy? Total lack of empathy and emotional support. As for you Monica, you need extensive psychiatric care.

You are heartless and unfeeling and as bad as her husband. When you are carrying a baby, whether or not you got to meet it, the first binding begins when it is in the womb. If you can't say anything helpful or constructive DON'T say anything at all.

My sister lost a baby after carrying her to term. My sister wasn't able to talk about it for many years. I'm hoping that you can experience the loss of a child. Maybe then, you can understand what that mother felt.

You're an idiot. She carried a whole human life inside of her body,( my God). She carried the child for months,fed the child and felt it move inside her. It was still her child. You slow and so is her husband. I hate she lost her child but God calls home those that don't deserve to put up with the ignorant. And yes I know the feeling cause my family has seen the same travisty. In short get a pulse.

That woman had a deep connection. You don’t have to see it if you can feel it. Maybe one day you will get your eyes opened and eventually see the horrible choice you made in posting this comment

What is wrong with/u? My dil was pregnant w/triplets; 1 baby survived. Knowing this, she had to carry all to term. Love that 7yo to pieces! But not a day goes by that i don’t think about my 2 lost Grandbabies!

Because she carried that butiful baby for Nine months it was a part of her then and will be forever. You must not be a mother.or you and her husband are just cold hearted beast.

Monica John Smith maybe you have never lost a baby but I have and I never met it but I still loved it shame on you for being so cruel

I'm going to break this down the best I can for you. She was making a blanket for her goal of giving birth to a healthy baby. The goal was never met and she hasn't had closure yet. Maybe you can relate to a race you've trained for for years. But it's a race you never finished.)
Her efforts were all in on the blanket. The blanket would hold her baby. Provide comfort, and possibly even become a sense of loving security for her child. A mother carrying a child does not need to see her child to know she loves it.
I am not a mom nor have I ever desired to become such. But even I can show a little compassion for mother's who have lost a baby.
Being kind is free and it is ok to be kind too.

Hormones have alot to do with it and there's no help that can fix it. She carried that baby for 9 months' f e it every movement and expecting to b have a liv e breathing baby soon to hold and feed . Wh e n that doesn't happen the mother may go thru a never e bdingbgrieving process . Hormones have alot to do with it . You were terribly cruel to b say what you b did to her o n this public forum and you owe her an apology. You need to humble yourself and come on here as ndcapologuze . Not that it b will really help the way s h e feels. Her grief is much stronger than your rudeness .

You're a horrible person.

You apparently have NEVER lost a child !!! YOU are a VERY UGLY person to be so inconsiderate enough to say this to a woman who has lost her baby that she carries for 9 months in her belly !!! I lost my little bit at just past my half way point of my pregnancy and it just about killed me !!! Plus who is anyone to tell anyone how they should or shouldn't or even that they can grieve !?!?! It is no one person's place to speak this UGLY to anybody else !!! It's people like you and this poor woman's husband that make this world God damn grim !!!!

YOU, MY DEAR ARE THE "NOTHING" IN THIS STORY. YOU HAVE NO SENSE OF EMPATHY, OR TACT. YOU WOULD BE SAD IF YOUR CAR GOT WRECKED, BUT A CHILD DYING, IS "NOTHING"? I DON'T WISH ANYTHING BAD FOR YOU, BUT I MIGHT LAUGH IF SOMETHING BAD HAPPENS, TO YOU.

if she was crocheting for 9 months her baby was full term when she died, so she was a human being. You on the other hand are not.

I can only imagine that you not only have never suffered such a tremendous loss, but that the cavity where your heart should be is totally empty! I hope the writer gains the courage to share what she is doing at some point, when she is ready.

What a raging b you are.

You are pathetic, she carried her daughter for 9 months be that is a bond within itself. She didn't have to see her to feel an attachment. What if I told you that during an emergency C section I was born, and my mother past away. Would you also tell me how could miss someone I've never meet? Your wrong. You need to watch your words, you slack empathy

I suppose if you don't have a soul, or if you've been so hurt in your life that your heart has hardened so much, I could somewhat understand that you are genuinely this cold. The husband doesn't get a pass either, and while what he did was truly one of those f****Ed up moments you can never take back, the ones that leave a dagger deep in the wound for life, I can empathize because I've been in his position not just once, not twice, but 3 separate times. each time was even more devastating than the last. but we kept trying, and finally, when we were giving up, my wife was 41, we were talking to an IVF doctor about trying with donor eggs, I just broke down and cried out to God. You see, I was adopted at birth, went 36 years never knowing who gave me away or meeting a blood relative. I begged God to at least let me know who my mother was, so I could at least thank her for giving me a chance and to forgive her. that night, I saw an ad for a discount on a DNA test kit, so I ordered, and a week later, I had the results, found my aunt, reached out to her...no joke, it could have ONLY been THAT DNA company because this Aunt was the ONLY LIVING person who knew about my birth mother having a baby in the late 80s, and she only did that same company's test. I found my birth mother next day, and reached out, she received me well and then a few days later we found out we were pregnant with who was born a beautiful baby boy, who happened to be born the same day my adoptive father passed away (we named our son after him, and made sure his family name would live on, since he's the only grandson, he had no biological children and he selflessly raised me knowing his family name would end with us if we didn't have a boy). this could only have been God's hand, in direct response to my prayers. I share this to point out 2 things. my biological mother never truly met me after birth I was immediately taken away. when she drove from Tampa that year to meet me, and I hugged her when she stepped off the elevator in the hotel, I felt something I had never felt in my life - I felt like I belonged, it's called oxytocin. the 2nd thing, I knew each of our children we lost and I wish that feeling of pain on nobody.

You’re a heartless piece of s..t just like her husband 👿

Spoken like a true psychopath, you must be one of those born without a soul! Your Aura is probably nonexistent , and if you do happen to have one, it's probably only different shades of gray and black. You should look up someone that has the equipment and set up an appointment and check and see! I believe those without an Aura are also without a Soul, and the one who may have a dark one, who knows what's actually in them!!! Because those without a Bright Colorful Aura like the majority of everyone on earth, that shows they don't have the eternal light and or have lost it, or maybe never had one and are not an actual one of Gods children. Get some help regardless, I could Only imagine what type of stuff goes thru your head on a daily basis and especially if you get mad , lol

You're sick. She lost her baby, a baby that had been in her body. She has every right to feel sad about it.

oh poor you! Hang in there

MISS ANITA, I AM SO VERY HEARTBROKEN FOR YOU. IT'S BEEN 42 YEARS, AND I STILL MOURN MY LITTLE BOY. I ALWAYS WILL. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.