I Kicked My MIL Out of Our House to Protect My Marriage

When I said “I do” a year ago, I never imagined my biggest challenge wouldn’t be my husband, but his overbearing mother. I finally made the hard decision to kick my mother-in-law out of our lives to protect my marriage. And no, it wasn’t easy, but it had to be done.

Hi Bright Side! We’ve been married for a year, but my overbearing MIL, who lives with us, is a huge problem. She calls my husband every single day at work, sometimes more than once, and cares for him like a baby.

At first, I brushed it off. I get it, moms love their sons. But it quickly became clear she didn’t just miss him, she didn’t trust me.

She criticizes everything I do. My cooking, how I keep the house, how we spend our money.

Once, she even implied I might be a gold-digger. That stung. I work full-time and have always pulled my weight. But to her, I was never “good enough” for her son.

Then things went too far.

Recently, my MIL crossed all limits when she got the nerve to show up with a woman who claimed to be my husband’s ex...and said she was pregnant.

Then my MIL said something that made my blood boil: “I thought you two should get to know each other.” I was speechless. Angry. Confused.

I couldn’t believe what was happening. My MIL brought my husband’s ex to my house. Not only that, but this woman claimed she was pregnant, heavily implying it might be his baby.

The ugly truth was revealed.

I waited until my husband got home and told him everything. To his credit, he immediately called his mom. He was just as shocked and told her she had crossed the line.

But she wouldn’t back down. She said, “You belong with someone else. She’s not the right woman for you; you can do so much better.” She even admitted to staying in touch with his ex and said the baby might’ve been his, and it could be a nice start, just to stir drama.

Later, we found out that while the girl was indeed his ex, the baby wasn’t his. But that wasn’t the point anymore. The damage was done. My MIL was clearly trying to sabotage our marriage.

I took steps to protect my peace.

That night, I made a decision I never thought I’d make: I told my husband that his mother wasn’t welcome in our home anymore. I didn’t scream. I didn’t fight.

I calmly said, “This is our life. She’s crossing every line, and I can’t live like this. She needs to move out.”

He was upset, understandably, as she’s a senior with health issues. But, I told him she needs to go, or I’ll move out. For now, I’m staying with my mom till my MIL settles somewhere else.

What would you have done in my place? I’m happy to get any advice.

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