Not enough. Say goodbye, tell him he's got his friends.
PS I'd have thrown the pie away.
I Made a Meal for My Husband, but He Embarrassed Me in Front of Everyone Over One Thing
Sometimes, even the smallest gestures can go unappreciated, leaving you questioning everything. In this story, our reader goes out of her way to bake her husband’s favorite pie for his birthday, only to have him publicly mock her efforts. What should have been a sweet moment turned into an embarrassing one.
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Thank you for sharing your story! We’re sorry you’re going through this and would like to offer some tips that might help.
Demand an apology.
He crossed a line by humiliating you in front of others, especially when all you did was try to do something thoughtful for him. Tell him directly that you expect a genuine apology, not just for not liking the pie, but for the way he handled it. You deserve respect, and an apology is the bare minimum.
Look for the patterns.
Does he often put you down or downplays your feelings? Does he tend to dismiss your efforts, whether it’s cooking or other gestures? If this isn’t an isolated incident, it could point to a bigger issue in the relationship. Take note of these behaviors and consider if this is something you’re willing to continue dealing with.
Decide how you want to move forward.
If he’s willing to change, that’s a good sign. However, if he refuses to acknowledge your feelings or doesn’t apologize, it’s a major red flag. If he can’t take responsibility for his actions and continues to act dismissive, it shows a lack of respect. Think seriously about whether you want to stay in a relationship where your emotions are brushed off.
Don’t blame yourself for his behavior.
Remember that this isn’t your fault. You were doing something thoughtful for him, and his reaction was inappropriate. Just because he didn’t like the wording on the pie doesn’t justify him embarrassing you in front of others. You deserve appreciation and respect for your efforts, not criticism.
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