10 Moments That Prove Kindness Turns Rejection Into Happiness

On my flight home, I noticed how unkind a flight attendant was being towards another while they were handing out drinks. When they passed me, I gently tapped the other flight attendant. She looked at me, probably expecting I was about to ask for something. Instead, I said, “You’re doing an amazing job. Thank you for your energy.”
When I was getting off the plane, she looked at me and said, “Thank you. I needed that in that moment.” You never know how much someone needs to hear kind words.

A preschooler practiced riding her bike while her parents jogged behind calling, “You’re doing great!” “You’re doing SO great!” she shouted to me as she rode by. A little later we all stopped along the trail.
When she looked at my wheelchair and asked about it, her parents explained what it was. She thought about it, then smiled and said, “It helps you go everywhere just like my bike will help me go places when I’m big.” For her, wheels were just wheels. And the world made perfect sense.

My kid just had a meltdown at the grocery store and it made me cry as well. As I was walking out an elderly couple came towards me, gave me a hug and handed me a tissue, whispering the words “It’ll pass, you’re doing great.” I’m so glad kindness still exists in this dark world. That hug meant the world to me!

Kindness is contagious. I’ll tell you why.
There’s this kid who just hopped on the bus with his mom, he was holding this Buzz Lightyear toy and he was grinning from ear to ear and seeing that makes me smile in an instant ’cause to that kid, that toy was so precious that looking at it makes him smile.
As they seated beside me, I remembered that I bought some sweets from the grocery store and so I was planning on giving one to the kid but I hesitated a little just because I got shy. Then I remembered the phrase, “Do it for the plot” and so I gave him one and the mother said “thank you” and smiled at me and it made my heart full, I kid you not.
But then they got off the bus, once again saying thanks to me, the bus was full in an instant and there were these teenage boys that got on first but then decided to give the seat to a woman and the woman smiled and was so thankful for the boys ’cause she was holding a quite heavy bag.
When the bus stopped again, there was this elderly woman and I got up in an instant to give my seat to her as I was few meters away to my stop. And those boys, the woman they gave up their seats to, the elderly woman and other people on that bus saw that.
And I just felt and knew that they were also reminded that kindness is free and can be done even in the smallest way possible if you just decided to do so willingly. In every possible way, choose kindness always. :)

Last Saturday I was at Aldi, and there was a woman walking around who was older, probably in her 70s, wearing a very 1980s looking dress and pink sparkly boots. She looked a little out of it, like she was in a fog.
She ended up getting in line behind me, and I complimented her boots. At first, I think she thought I was not being genuine, but then she said, “Thanks, they make me feel better.” I said, “Whatever works these days, right?”
Then she smiled and said, “My husband is dying. I just talked to him and it’s not good. We’ve been together for 57 years, and I don’t know what I’m going to do without him.”
Aldi cashiers being as speedy as they are, I knew I didn’t have much time, so I looked at her and said, “You’re going to be okay. It is going to be awful, and it is going to suck, but you will get through it. I lost my husband 2 1/2 years ago, and it’s the worst thing that ever happened to me, but I’m still here. And I’m so sorry.”
She thanked me, and I took my cart and walked away. I am not a person who normally strikes up random conversations with people, but whenever I see somebody who looks lost or looks like they feel invisible, I always try to make them feel seen. I think that’s all that any of us really want is to not feel invisible or alone in our suffering.

My 25yr old brother has lived with us for 3yrs. He randomly screams, “I love you, sister,” across the house several times a day. As a result, my 9yr old repeatedly screams “I love you, mom,” across the house all day. Just a reminder that kindness is as contagious as hatred. Carry on.

When I was about 15, I went to JCPenney to pick up a jacket I’d ordered, and wore it home. It was too small and I ended up returning it. Somewhere along the way I lost track of my wallet.
Weeks (months?) later I got a small package in the mail. Someone across the country had ordered the same jacket and it came with my wallet in the pocket, so they sent it back to me. 50 years later I still think about that kindness. Do good wherever you can.

My son’s bike was stolen from our front yard. He was crushed. It was a cheap bike, but it was his freedom.
I posted on the community Facebook page, just venting. An hour later, a teenager knocked on my door. He looked rough. Hood up, tattoos on his hands.
He was pushing a bike. Not my son’s bike. A better one. “I saw your post,” he mumbled. “I... uh... I fix up bikes. This one is sitting in my garage. Your kid can have it.”
I looked at him. “Why?” He shrugged. “When I was little, someone stole my bike. I cried for a week. Nobody helped me. I don’t want your kid to feel like that.” He refused to take money.
Later, I found out that kid has a record. People call him a trouble maker. To me, he’s a hero. Don’t Judge a Book by its Hoodie. 🙏

I was 9 weeks pregnant when the cramping hit. I called my husband. He sighed, “Here we go again,” and told me to handle it.
I drove to the ER alone, crying the whole way. The doctor confirmed a miscarriage. I called my husband three times. Nothing.
So I called his coworker, the only number I had. She picked up immediately, heard my voice, and drove straight to the hospital. She sat with me until I was discharged, held my hand while I signed paperwork, and didn’t leave my side once.
Only later did I find out that my husband had been on his lunch break the entire time. He had seen every call. He chose not to answer.
His coworker never told me what she said to my husband that evening. But whatever it was, my husband came home that night unable to look me in the eye. I didn’t scream. I didn’t cry. I just looked at him standing in the doorway and felt something go completely quiet inside me.
That was two years ago. We are divorced now. I still think about that coworker. A woman I had met twice in my life who showed up for me in a way my own husband never did.
I sent her a card last Christmas. I didn’t know what to write so I just wrote, “Thank you for being there.” She wrote back, “Nobody should go through that alone.”

I own a small bakery. A woman ordered a custom cake: “Congrats on Your Promotion.” Next day she called. “Cancel it. They gave it to someone else.”
It was already made. She came to pick it up anyway. No smile, looking sad. But when she saw the cake, she froze. I had written over the original message. It now said: “Congrats on Surviving a Workplace That Didn’t Deserve You.”
She laughed for the first time in days. Then cried a little. Then laughed again. She said it was the most seen she’d felt in months. I wouldn’t let her pay for it.
Three weeks later she walked back in, new job, bigger smile, and ordered another cake. This time it just said: “I got it.” I didn’t charge her for that one either.