My Husband’s Colleague Was Shamelessly Flirting With Him in Front of Me

Big tips often feel like a win in the service industry, but sometimes servers are left wondering if accepting them was the right choice. One waitress recently shared her story on Reddit after receiving a generous tip from a customer, which sparked a lot of discussion about what’s appropriate and where to draw the line.
“I (27f) am a waitress. Friday night, I served this table. It was a middle-aged woman and a very handsome middle-aged man. A guy I would have gone out with if he wasn’t so creepy. He had made sure to mention that the woman he was dinning with was his sister.
After the meal, he gave me a $500 (US dollar) tip. The tip was almost twice the price of the meal. He told me the tip was because I was so pretty.
After work, I told a fellow waitress (32f) and she was angry. She told me it was a stupid decision to accept that. She said I made it seem like behavior like that is acceptable by accepting it.
I probably would never accept a tip like that under those circumstances again. Am I wrong for this?”
At a café or restaurant, you might leave with more than just a good meal. The people in this article walked away with stories they couldn’t keep to themselves.