My MIL’s Baby-Snatching Habit Backfired As I Pulled Off An Oscar-Worthy Scene And Humiliated Her

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2 days ago

There are situations when it’s too hard to remain silent even if you have the most outstanding patience in the world. When, for example, a mother-in-law oversteps her boundaries one too many times, something is bound to snap—especially if she’s dealing with a new mom. Let’s be real: crossing a new mom isn’t just playing with fire—it’s like diving straight into a volcano.

One Redditor had finally had enough and shared her brilliant, cheeky, and—dare we say—savage way of handling her meddling mother-in-law. And many people found it a sort of legendary.

The OP’s mother-in-law turned out to be a really tricky person.

One new mom had no choice but to publicly humiliate her mother-in-law after countless ignored requests to stop snatching her crying baby out of her arms. The woman turned to Reddit and shared her epic story, which later provoked a hurricane in the comments.

The OP, who went under a nickname AlexHammouri, wrote, [edited], “My ex MIL was a passive nightmare. She was no help, but as soon as we were out and around people she would all of a sudden grab my baby out of my arms and not give her back. After a few times something in me snapped. I went to an all woman gathering with members of her family and humiliated her.”

The OP mentioned that her MIL witnessed her son, the OP’s ex-husband, offending her and did nothing. But when in public, the woman always wanted to be grandma of the year and that’s why she had this annoying habit of grabbing the OP’s baby out of her arms and not giving the baby back. Such behavior couldn’t remain unnoticed, and it backfired.

One day, the woman’s patience came to an end, and she exploded.

The OP explained why she finally lost her temper, [edited] “Whenever my MIL snatched my baby, she behaved in a wild way. She was just holding her non stop and pass her around, even if she cried. She would literally not take no for an answer and just grab the baby and pull her until I got scared and let go as to not injure her.

This was my first baby and you know how being postpartum makes you vulnerable... my ex was never a help and just said ‘I’m staying out of it’”

So, the OP finally lost it and decided to revenge. The woman wrote, “After a few times something in me snapped. I have to admit, I see myself as a kind person but with a mean side underneath. I went to an all woman gathering with members of her family that came from all over the country for a visit.

MIL is hovering like crazy, telling me — not asking — to give her my baby. I try to softly resist her saying ‘no, no MIL, please. Let go’. She’s using force to get my baby out of my arms. Baby starts crying because she doesn’t want to be removed from me and I took my shot. I started wailing as loud as I could ‘OMG MIL WHAT ARE YOU DOING? YOURE HURTING MY BABY! STOP PULLING WHAT ARE YOU DOING? YOURE BREAKING HER ARM WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU??’ ”

The OP’s performance was Oscar-worthy and it did produce impression on everyone, including her MIL.

The OP wrote, “Everyone fell silent and was watching her. She recoiled like my baby was electrically charged. But I didn’t stop oh no! Baby was still crying so I started sobbing, yelling that I needed to go to a doctor with her. ‘WHY DO YOU ALWAYS DO THIS I TOLD YOU TO STOP HURTING HER SO MANY TIMES’ I left the party (a win to begin with since I was only invited to pass my baby around to begin with)

Called my ex and told him his psycho mom ripped my baby so hard out of my arms she injured her and I was going to the doctor. I also told him it was all his fault for being such a mommy’s boy and not defending her so this was on him. Baby was by then fed and sleeping comfy in the backseat. Went to the doctor where surprise surprise she was luckily all fine.

That was the only time my ex actually yelled at his mom and she NEVER even went close to me when I held the baby after that.

I’m safe away from them both now. You might all think I’m crazy but the awful things they did to me and my baby before I saw an opening to run... So yeah that’s my story. Just putting it out there in case someone needs some inspiration...”

The comments section exploded after the OP posted her epic story.

One user, who came to the comments section first, wrote, “You, my dear, were BRILLIANT. You held your boundary like a champ, and did exactly what was needed to protect your child.”

Another user commented, “I had already read this post but had to re-read because OP’s actions were so satisfying. I’m sick of posts about MILs grabbing/snatching babies from mothers’ arms with no consequences. Way to put MIL in her place!”

The third netizen added, “Not crazy, this is beautiful and also hilarious! Sometimes we have to do whatever is in our wheelhouse at the time to stop getting our boundaries stomped on.”

One more person added, “You are a genius!! Any way to protect your children, you should do it! I bet she was mortified and will not be so grabby in the future!! I imagined this scene and had to laugh. Great job mom!”

And here’s a story about an over-protective and possessive MIL, who even wanted to take her DIL’s place in her son’s bedroom. The woman, who told this story, needs advice and support from people who might have been in the same situation before.

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