I actually agree with the husband on this one. Even though he SHOULD get the same rights, the husband isn’t obligated to that.
My Husband Says It’s Not “His Responsibility” to Pay for My Son’s Tuition
Balancing finances in a blended family can be tough. Kate, a Bright Side reader, is dealing with her husband’s refusal to contribute to her son’s college tuition. Instead, he spends money on what Kate considers less important things. We provided her with some advice on how to navigate this difficult situation.




Thank you for sharing, Kate! Here are some tips we hope can help you.
Consider seeking mediation through counseling.
Set up a family counseling session where you and Paul can discuss your concerns in a mediated setting. A counselor can help guide the conversation, ensuring that Jude’s future is prioritized while addressing Paul’s worries about parental responsibility.
Explore financial planning options and find compromises together.
Have a conversation with Paul about creating a comprehensive financial plan that covers both Jude’s education and his son’s birthday gift. Brainstorm creative solutions like setting up a savings plan for Jude’s tuition while budgeting for the car, and ensuring support for both children.
Emphasize the importance of investing in Jude’s education for his future success, while also acknowledging the significance of celebrating milestones in his son’s life.
Consider seeking legal consultation regarding guardianship and financial responsibilities.
Given Paul’s statement that Jude is no longer his responsibility now that he’s 18, it’s wise to seek legal advice regarding guardianship and financial support.
Consult with a lawyer to understand the implications of Paul’s declaration on guardianship and financial responsibilities. Explore legal options available to ensure Jude’s educational needs are met, whether through potential legal obligations or alternative sources of funding.
Tap into community support and networks for assistance and guidance.
Get in touch with your extended family, friends, and community resources for support and advice. Connect with other parents and educational organizations to explore scholarship opportunities, mentorship programs, or part-time work options for Jude to contribute towards his tuition.
Creating a support network around Jude will offer both practical assistance and emotional reassurance during this difficult period.
It seems like Amanda, another mom in a blended family, faced a surprising situation when her husband asked her daughter to skip his birthday party because his own daughter would be there too. You can read her full story here.
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