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Let your Mil take her. You'd ruin your marriage with your resentment. I'm so sorry but, you should divorce him so he can adopt her and possibly meet a someone who'd be happy to accept her. Giving in just to make your husband happy will lead to no one being happy.

It's hard to take care of babies

Story goes that when I was very young I used to say Mommy, remember when I was your mommy?

"Loving" kindness

THANK YOU! I (we) have needed these positive words and actions to uplift me (us). I just want to be happy. Thank you for sharing reasons to smile and feel the living kindness.

Being supportive doesn't mean having to buy the book. There are lots of other ways to support an author.

Helping doesnt mean taking advantage of someone. She was the one being selfish. She had the babies she should expect to take cre of them and have less weekends with the girls. She has a husband for more help when you're not available. Nobody in their 60's wants to be handling twins on a regular

I would want back everything that had ever touched my dead babies skin...the grieving sister did not behave badly...but she sure as h should in the future

Sometimes the truth hurts. You had every right to speak your truth.

No need to read the book. The fact that you are unwilling to buy a book your "best friend" self-published, no matter the genre, proves that you are indeed, unsupportive.

Again to the one who's mom quit her job, it most certainly could have been pain, not pride. You need to talk to her before you judge her

First story, Dude, WHAT were you thinking? Counting on the promotion to get away from your manipulative wife? Maybe she was manipulative bc you were CHEATING! I have been on both sides of that equation, you cheated and got what you deserved 😵‍💫

I always say "Your life ends once you have kids." For 18+ years, your life as a mother and father should be consumed with raising your children, not going out to parties every weekend. If you didn't want to stop having a separate life, then don't freaking have kids!

It can be totally normal to not have a period if you're breastfeeding. I never continued with it long enough to find out myself

My husbands uncle insulted me at Christmas one time. I walked out of the house and never laid eyes on him or his kids again. No regrets.

Divorce...

So y'all like to reward ultimate betrayal...?

I agree.

Yeah, I would go home and pack up his stuff that day to go live with them, and go take a vacation with his college money.

I would have said sure, I'll be there with the food at such and such time, then take the food to a homeless shelter with pictures to share the next day.