10 Workplace Moments That Teach Us Compassion and Wisdom Are What Great Teams Are Built On

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06/04/2026
10 Workplace Moments That Teach Us Compassion and Wisdom Are What Great Teams Are Built On

There’s this thing that happens at work sometimes: a quiet gesture, something someone did or said that you weren’t expecting, and years later you’re still thinking about it. Not the promotions or the performance reviews. Just a person being genuinely kind to another person, in the middle of an ordinary workday. These 10 real life random acts of kindness will make you want to be a little better to whoever is sitting near you tomorrow.

  • My deskmate Gloria was going through a really brutal divorce. She didn't talk about it much at work, but you could tell. Some days she'd come in and she was fine, focused, her normal self. Other days she'd stare at her screen and I could see she wasn't really there.
    Our manager was the kind of guy who noticed everything and Gloria had already had two conversations with him about being "off her game."
    I started quietly picking up the slack. If she hadn't responded to an email thread by the end of day I'd jump in and move things forward. If she missed a deadline by a couple of hours I'd find a way to cover it or buy her time without flagging it upwards.
    I also started making sure I had the kind of updates ready that she might be asked about in team meetings, so if she blanked I could smoothly fill in without making it obvious. I did this for weeks. She has no idea I did any of it.
    Her divorce finalised, she came back fully and now she's one of the strongest people on the team. I never told her and I never plan to. Some kindness is just better kept quiet.
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  • So for context, I was a senior copywriter at a mid-size agency and we had this intern who had been with us for about 3 months. She was genuinely talented, but she was also terrified of talking to anyone above manager level.
    We had a client presentation coming up for a campaign she had actually done most of the creative thinking on. She had come up with the concept, refined the messaging, basically it was her work with my edits and name on it.
    A week before the presentation I told her she was going to present it. She went pale lol. She said she couldn’t, that she would mess it up, that the client was important. I told her that was exactly why she should do it.
    We spent three evenings prepping, and I made her do it in front of me, in front of two other colleagues, over and over until she stopped apologizing mid-sentence. The day of the presentation she was still nervous but she walked in there and delivered it cleanly.
    The client loved it and specifically asked my manager if the intern was available for the next brief. She got a full-time offer a few days later. She sent me a voice note on the day she got it and she was crying and laughing at the same time. I still have it saved.
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  • I was doing my PhD part-time while working full-time at a research institute. It was a lottt and actually harder because I was all alone in the city.
    My supervisor at work knew I was writing it up and that my defense was on a particular Friday afternoon. He never said anything about it beyond “good luck.” I assumed it was that, he was busy, the defense was at a university two cities away, it was a whole thing.
    I walked into the defense room and he was sitting in the back row in his regular work clothes, laptop bag still on his shoulder like he had literally just walked in. He gave me a little nod when I saw him and that was it.
    He didn’t speak, didn’t introduce himself to anyone, just sat there while I presented and answered questions for 2 hours. When it was over and the committee came out and told me I had passed, he stood up, shook my hand and said, “I knew you would,” and then excused himself to catch his train back.
    My PhD committee chair later asked me who he was and I said my boss and she said, “He drove four hours each way and didn’t tell you he was coming?” I had not even thought to ask how he got there.
    I think about that a lot. He didn’t have to do it. He didn’t make a speech about it. He just showed up so I wouldn’t be alone in that room, and then left.
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Richard Bowden
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Paul, perhaps you should look up how quotation marks work. The 4 hours drive were not the authors words, rather his quote of another individual. Duh

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  • We had a team of about 14 people and once a week we’d all go out for lunch together. It was meant to be a nice team culture thing but honestly it had kind of become a close-knit situation where the louder personalities dominated and a few quieter people just kind of faded into the background.
    One of those people was a guy named Mick who had joined us from another country about four months in. He started making excuses to skip the lunches, saying he had calls, saying he’d eaten already.
    I started skipping too and ordering food with him at the office instead. I just said once that I actually preferred not doing the group lunch thing and asked if he wanted to grab something nearby with me instead. We started doing that most weeks.
    He told me eventually, a few months in, that the group lunches made him feel invisible because nobody really included him in the conversation and he had started dreading Thursdays. He said our lunch thing had genuinely made him feel like he belonged somewhere at that company.
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  • I was an event coordinator and about two weeks into the job I had badly miscommunicated with a vendor about the number of chairs needed for a corporate event. We were 40 chairs short the morning of, with guests arriving in three hours.
    My senior colleague found out, looked at me for exactly one second, said “okay” and then just started making calls. She found a rental place that could do same-day delivery, paid the deposit on her own card because the company card was with the finance team and there was no time to chase approvals, and had 45 chairs arrive with 45 minutes to spare.
    The event went fine. Nobody knew anything had gone wrong. Afterward she sat with me and walked through exactly what had happened and how to prevent it, no anger, no you should have known better, just here’s the gap and here’s how we close it.
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  • I joined a new company last year and the first few months were rough, like VERY rough. No friends, the work was harder than I expected and I was constantly second guessing myself. There was a guy on my team who sat two rows over. We didn’t work on the same projects much.
    Somewhere around month two I noticed that whenever he went on a coffee run he’d bring one back for me without asking. The exact same thing every time: oat milk flat white, one sugar. I never told him that was what I wanted, he must have just noticed when I made it myself in the kitchen early on.
    He did this for months. Just quietly included me. On days when the work felt impossible and I was sitting there wondering if I had made a mistake taking this job, that little cup would appear on my desk and honestly it held me together more than I can explain.
    It sounds so silly to say a coffee changed things but it really did. It made me feel like I belonged.
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  • So I have hyperhidrosis, which means I sweat a lot, like way more than the average person, and it has nothing to do with temperature or activity. It’s a medical thing and it is honestly one of the most socially anxious parts of my life, it makes me soooo self conscious.
    I was new at the job and was visibly struggling some days in meetings. I haven’t told anyone because I never know how to explain it without it becoming the thing the whole office gossips about.
    One morning I came in and there was a small desk fan sitting on my desk. No note. I asked around quietly and my colleague Simone eventually admitted she’d bought it because she had noticed I seemed uncomfortable and thought it might help.
    She said it in the most low-key way, like, “I just thought it might be useful, I had a spare.” And then she moved on and never brought it up again. She didn’t ask what was wrong, she didn’t make me explain my body to her, she just did something practical and kind and let me keep my dignity.
    I kept that fan for three years. Moved jobs twice and brought it with me both times.
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Judi Jetson
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I have Achalasia, its rare, can't swallow food normally. The social anxiety about being different is very real. I won't attempt to eat around people. It takes 5 min for water to move through my esophagus to my stomach when my stomach cooperates and lets it in rather than vomitting it right back up. Work is so food social and I'm seen as an AH if I just be present and not shove food in my mouth.

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  • My mum was hospitalised on the same day my team had planned a small celebration for a project I had led that had done really well. I found out about the hospitalisation in the morning and spent the rest of the day at the hospital, texting my manager that I was sorry I couldn’t be there. I genuinely forgot about the celebration entirely, it was the last thing on my mind.
    She was discharged 2 days later and I came back to work still pretty wrung out. I walked into the office and the team had basically recreated the entire celebration, same cake, same decorations, same printed little cards. Someone had even kept a slice of the original cake in the fridge for 2 days on the off chance I came back before it went bad.
    My colleague had organised the whole thing and just said “we weren’t going to celebrate without you, that would be weird.” I ugly cried in the break room.
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Ruth Dollar
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How very kind of your co-workers. I've had really great ones over the years, too. When my mom had died, and I was out of town, when I came back there was an envelope full of cash that people had contributed, which was so beautiful.

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  • When our company switched to a new project management software everyone got one training session and then you were supposed to just figure it out lol. Most of us did fine after a bit.
    But there was a woman, Gladys, who had been with the company for 22 years and was honestly one of the most competent people there in terms of actual job knowledge, who was really struggling.
    She was too embarrassed to ask IT for more help and I could see her getting stressed every time she had to use the system. I asked her if she wanted me to sit with her and go through it. She said she didn’t want to bother me. I said it was genuinely fine and that the system was confusing even for people who were used to it.
    We spent a few lunch breaks going through it together, slowly, no rushing, I wrote her a little cheat sheet with the steps she used most often. By the end of the second session she was navigating it confidently.
    She sent me an email afterward that was so formal and sweet it made me smile for the rest of the day. She said, “I was beginning to think I had become too old for this work and you reminded me that I haven’t.”
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Brad Hood
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When IT swapped out the old computers, they just unplugged the old ones & replaced. One lady had shortcuts for the programs she used and was frantic because she couldn't do her job.So I sat with her and got all the shortcuts set, then did a screen capture to save on her network drive. Then I had a talk with Corporate guy swapping and making sure they EXACTLY looked like replaced ones?

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  • After eight hours of labor, my baby was delivered by C-section. I was exhausted in a way that doesn’t have a word for it, kind of floating, kind of not fully there yet, still figuring out that I was now a mother haha.
    4 hours after the delivery, my phone buzzed. It was my boss. He texted, “Heard you got the easy way out lol. It’s urgent, check your email.”
    I stared at it for a long time. I was too tired and too overwhelmed to even respond. I put the phone down and went back to being with my baby.
    The next morning he showed up at the hospital. With HR. I thought for a genuinely terrifying second that I was in some kind of trouble. His face was red and he looked uncomfortable and he kept adjusting his collar.
    He said, “You need to know that I was reported this morning for what I texted you. I came to apologise in person because a text isn’t good enough for what I said.” It came out that another colleague who had seen him write it had gone straight to HR that same night.
    He stood there and said that what he had written was ignorant and cruel and that he understood if I didn’t accept the apology. He had clearly been spoken to formally already, you could see it. But here is the part that actually stayed with me.
    After he left, the HR rep who had come with him stayed a few extra minutes. She told me that the company had arranged for two weeks of home-cooked meal deliveries to be sent to my house after I was discharged, organised through a group chat of people from the office who all chipped in. She said, “People wanted you to know you were supported.”
    I cried so much the nurse came to check on me. I had a boss who thought major surgery was the easy way out, and I had colleagues who quietly made sure I would come home to a warm meal every night for two weeks. Same workplace, completely different humans.
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Autumn Thomas
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I hope they showed him a video of a c section. The cutting of tissue and muscle and your guts being pulled out and put in a bowl. Then a baby being pulled out through a 2 inch slit. Then your guts being plopped back in and sewing each layer back up and a drain being put in for a week. Lol speaking from experience btw.

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Mya Savage
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Autumn Thomas

I had a c-section and they didn't take anything out but the baby and placenta. I had a 4 inch incision in my bikini line.

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OMG Karen, why have you deleted this comment?
Dean Martin
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"Easy way out lol" to someone recovering from major surgery is an insane thing to type

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Peggy Abrahamson
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What a difference from the way the HR and Secretary of Labor treated me when I was going through a rough cancer trial for Stage IV Melanoma. The trial was in a breakthrough year at NIH and I am still alive and well today! But when I returned to work after the 8 weeks, I was bullied and harassed for 1.5 years by a political boss under Obama (he didn't know) and a hefty Weightlifter guy from our website group. I filed an EEOC claim and got an attorney, but none of it worked. I visited the Labor Dept. Civil Rights office when I was beginning to be harrassed and threatened, but they had no power and no real empathy for me it seemed. Rather than get sick again, I packed my office up and retired early. The horrible visits and threats were unbelievable. Our federal service and BOTH political parties have very corrupt people in them. If you say you are going to give birth or are fighting an illness, some agencies may try to fire or move you out. This is America for many now.

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Lillian
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Peggy Abrahamson

I wish I had known you while you were going through that, that's what I did as an advocate and I had a few nicknames because I was so fierce. I'm still fierce but it's more difficult now that I'm really ill but I was still fairly well then but I know what you mean. Our government and our politicians are corrupt and right now, until it's fixed, our system is broken and it's not for the people it's for those in power and those with wealth but I've been fighting that system since I was a little girl believe it or not. Writing Bill's and getting them passed and terrorizing politicians and anyone else who causes harm to the children and innocent's that I fight for in the name of God because I have always worked for God no matter who signed my paycheck. But my advocate work was tithing for God and I never received any payment for that and I never declared any expenses because it was part of my tithing. But I'm so sorry you had to go through that because it's so incredibly wrong!!! If you don't mind I would like to keep you in my prayers 🙏🏼💜.

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Jimmy McGregor
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Not excusing him but some people in management roles need coaching in people management skills. As an ex union rep I came into contact with many of them. To be fair, with the help of HR many of them became really good at it.

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Kate Wilson
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Honestly, showing up in person at the hospital to apologize took more accountability than most managers would show.

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Joe Mama
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Kate Wilson

It's still a bad move, what they wrote. "Urgency" can wait and pipe down on being what it is. Couldn't he have redirected the thing she was needed for to someone else in the same department, or someone else? What's wrong with him!?

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Birdie
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The apology only happened because HR got involved. Let's not pretend this was some great act of character.

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Ng Kui Choo KC
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I shudder to think of what would have happened if your colleague hadnt seen the text he penned

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Jamena C.
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HR rep covered the Company's A**! You had a bonafide harassment lawsuit and that text message was your proof!! Smooth cover-up. That's why they sent a woman. Glad you got the meals though. New moms definitely need the care. 🥰

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Alakhap Perumal
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I am from Malaysia. Do these things really happen out there? Or are they just stories. I really hope they are stories. I do not think people are so inhumane.

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Lillian
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Alakhap Perumal

Unfortunately, we really do have some people who don't know how to show compassion but that happens everywhere not just in the US.

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Barbara Smith

Barbara, open your eyes and ears. This happens everyday and everywhere! It isn't just to females but you can bet they are the majority.
I've always fought back and prayed God took care of the people responsible for the unfair treatments.

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Kitty Mchale
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My daughter had a rough labor with my granddaughter and they had to do anything emergency c section before we lost them both. My son in law got a call 30 minutes later telling him he needed to be in work. He was cussed at by his boss when he said no. The guy was a jerk. My son in law ended up leaving that job shortly after because of the mental abuse of that man. Some people are just AHHHHH

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Ruth Dollar
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I'm glad that boss came to apologize to you, even though he was reprimanded, it's still good to forgive knowing that all of us, have been in the need of forgiveness. And how very kind that people arranged to have a home-cooked meal for you for the first couple weeks after you're coming home. People can be quite kind and so glad that worked out for you. I wouldn't know which is harder, I would think that with a C-section, there still having to do cutting, and I'm sure that must take some recovery. May Jesus bless you and your family and new baby.

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Isabel Urch
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Ruth Dollar

It was not a planned c-section, or she would not have endured 8hrs labouring, something was going wrong. Doctors do not switch from natural delivery to operation without urgent medical need. The women I know who have experienced it were not allowed to pick up their own babies for several werks afterwards because of risk to the healing tissues, helpers had to hand them the baby.

The boss deserved getting his **** kicked for taking a life & death situation like she'd just been attention-seeking. Women and babies do still die in childbirth even in the developed world.

I'd have kicked his balls into ear rings.

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Debby McKenzine
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I had a C section in 2011 after a birth boy 8lb 1. Discharged 5 days later. Next morning g Plunket ws due visit. They found me carefully kneeling mopping the laundry floor as I had flooded laundry. Yes it felt slight sore but as I went slow was luckily OK. Partner was at work delivering mail In country. Which ever way a birth happens it's special for everyone even with the pain etc. Great jobs mum however it happens. Congratulations on the hardest part getting baby into the world. Those who can't carry Congratulations on the methods you become a mum as well

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Dorothy Anne
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I don't have bio kids but I've heard many women say this, that C-section is much easier than normal delivery

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Jen
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Dorothy Anne

Maybe in the moment it is because you're medicated out the AH, and don't have the process of a baby coming through your birth canal, BUT they literally cut you open, and pull your insides out while you're awake. The recovery is awful and so much worse than normal labor.

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L B
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Dorothy Anne

Yes, I am sure being cut open is better than being ripped open, but they are both horrible.

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heidi lambert
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L B

Me and my sister was both pregnant and due the same month as couple of cays apart My sister had to have an emergency c section but I didn't I spent hours in labour and finally pushed my baby in to the world but in all fairness a c section is definitely harder on the person then a normal delivery and its not just physical its emotional to i praise my sister and anyone else who has to go through a c section.

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Cheryl Cadwell
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Dorothy Anne

THE HOLE IS BIGGER, BUT THAT'S NOT SOMETHING TO BRAG ABOUT. SURGERY, OF ANY KIND IS DANGEROUS, AND NOTHING ABOUT GIVING BIRTH IS "EASY".

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Rad
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I wish she would have asked her boss on the phone if his brainectomy was the easy way out!

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Jenny gentry
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I had one it takes 2 weeks to heal up the first week u can't even stand up u have staples in ur stomach

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Lara
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My mom says the same. C section isn't as hard as normal delivery. Maybe there's some truth to it

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Annette Kinder
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Lara

Hi Lara,
Your mother is very wrong- I had a c-section and it took 3 months before I could even walk properly without fatigue and a lot of pain. I’ve also had a normal birth , was fine within a a couple of weeks.

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Mobereola Falola
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Lara

So instead of researching it, you chose to listen to what your mom said? Yikes. I know this isn't the first you're hearing that that's not true, either.

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Nikki C-4
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Uh.....c-sections take a MINIMUM of 6 weeks to heal... i should know as I've had THREE! My 1st was an emergency after labor for 3 days. My 2nd was forced due to high risk twin pregnancy. My 3rd was forced as i could not vbac (vaginas birth after c-section) due to the damage to my organs from the previous 2 surgeries.... it gets easier each time but still take 6 weeks just to heal enough not to disembowel urself by simply moving.... having ur abdomen cut into deep enough to go thru skin, muscle, and organs is NOT easy on anyone. Period. Even us fast healers still need time and help doing basic stuff those first few weeks (6....not 2 weeks)

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Julie Martini Dustin
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I had 3 children three different ways. One with all the drugs I could have. One completely natural, actually the best after the baby was born. The last one was a C-section. The C-section was the absolute worst to recover from. You can't even lift your toddler up. It took a good 4 - 5 weeks to heal, but they say 6 weeks.

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Kacee Paludi
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A c section is a nightmare and not easy in the least. My pain control failed and I felt it. Now I have severe PTSD. It took 3 months for the incision to stop hurting, to the day. Yep. So much easier.

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Christine Hayward
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A caesarian is major abdominal surgery with a 6 week recovery but you also have to add on the recovery from the labour

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