Your dad was a douche. Doesn't matter if it was her last wishes or not, he could have talked to you and who the hell gives away a family member??? Your poor cat lost her whole family. Memories help ease the pain but they just added salt to your wounds. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that, no child should. Your dad was supposed to protect you but he failed by trying to make the dead happy by failing the living. And your step mom is stuff horror movies are made from. Hugs to you and loads of prayers.
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- My stepmom gave away my late mom’s cat when she moved in. She said, “I don’t want a reminder of another woman!” I was 12 and couldn’t stand up for myself.
But the worst part was that Dad stayed quiet and didn’t do anything about it. He even helped his new wife remove every trace of my mom after she died—no photos, no clothes, not even mentioning her. It felt like he wanted to erase her.
It shocked me, because Mom and Dad had always been so in love, holding hands and smiling even in her final days. I felt betrayed, and I quietly resented him through all my teenage years.
8 years later, Dad died in a car accident. While going through his things, I found a bag with my mom’s name hidden in his drawer. Inside were her belongings, carefully preserved, along with a letter in her handwriting.
In it, Mom made him promise that once she was gone, he would remove every reminder of her, even the cat. She believed it would only hurt us to have constant reminders and wanted to protect me most of all, since I was so young. She didn’t want me suffering in a house full of memories without her. That’s why Dad stayed silent about everything.
I turned pale... All this time I thought he wanted to erase my mom, but he was following her last wishes and trying to shield me from pain. Dad left so suddenly that we never talked about it, and he never got to explain.
I wish I had been kinder and given him the benefit of the doubt. If only I could turn back time...
- After three interviews, I got rejected for a role I really thought I had. I emailed the hiring manager asking for honest feedback, expecting a generic HR reply.
Instead, he sent me a detailed breakdown of where I actually shined—skills I didn’t even value in myself. I used that to switch industries entirely.
We became online buddies. When I updated him months later, he replied, “Told you you were aiming too low.”

So your dead mom was an idiot and your dad a callous ahole.
I get it, they were TRYING to help but they were absolute morons who didn't know anything. Equivalent to someone trying to perform surgery without any training
He followed his wife's requests....back off unless you were in his shoes.
If your wife asked you to abandon your child is it suddenly okay because she requested it?
What they did was effectively emotional abuse. Instead of valuing their CHILDS ACTIVE needs, they valued the request of someone who was not there over the needs of the living child.
U think that is horrible ... Mom was trying to protect bit she did HARM Seven if it wasn't intentional .. U were a child no a baby they should have involved you in that decision ..That was heartless even if the intent was the opposite..I'm so sorry for your losses ..Bit dotn blame yourself it is the adults that were wrong ..Not you..I feel and undersend you behaved normally to each was done in that home ..Love and forgive yourself ..and try to move forward and up one day at a time...U deserve all the love and happiness in the world .I am an animal lover ..that would have crushed me and put me over the edge those selfish actions of grownups ..I'm so sorry ...Remember he was trying to do his best and follow what mom said ..I really can't understand how a mom could be so terribly mistaken
Uhhhhhh....NO!! The late mother knew her daughter better than you, and in all likelihood, better than anyone else. THAT is the bottom line.
HA she clearly did NOT or we wouldn't have a story. She f*cked up her child mentally.
Just because shes her mom doesnt mean its impossible for her to hurt her child.
Well, mom's wishes or not, none of them actually considered HOW this would AFFECT YOU. Why would anyone think that after losing a loved one, ESPECIALLY YOUR MOM, taking away ANY and EVERY trace of them would be helpful? Also as you grew up, why didn't someone begin to explain it to you? You can't blame yourself for how you resented him, he and your Stepmother and even your own mother, created the circumstances that caused you to feel the way you did. I am sorry that you lost your mom
I am also sorry that you lost the ability to grieve her properly, by having her completely removed from your life.
I was thinking the same thing. Why the cat too? That just seems unnecessary cruel to me.
Again....
Uhhhhhh....NO!! The late mother knew her daughter better than you, and in all likelihood, better than anyone else. THAT is the bottom line.
Considering what the daughter wrote, in this story, she clearly did not. Not EVERY parent knows how their children will react. Just like leaving the step parent in charge of the child's inheritance, and then the stepparent steals the money left to the child. It would be nice if your scenario was true, but, more often than not, it just is not the case. Taking away all traces of a parent that was SO loved, is like starving a person that is used to having food. No one, not even a parent has the right to try and control a child's emotions, especially when someone passes on.
Apparently she didn't know her daughter that well if she ended up resenting her father instead of moving on. And a beloved pet is not simply a possession, its a part of the family. If she grew up with that cat, losing it was probably just extra heartache in an already painful time. Parents don't always know best. She may have thought that would make things easier for her daughter, but obviously the reality was that she was hurt by her father basically erasing her mother's existence.
No she didn't. If she did the daughter would have been alright with everything instead of airing her therapy on here for strangers. She, the dad, and stepmother f*cked the poor child up. She thought none of them cared and I still doubt the stepmother does.
She also robbed her daughter from the grave of a happy childhood and a healthy realationship with her father
- Our college friend group chat has been mostly dead for months — occasional memes, birthday reminders, nothing real. Last week, one friend finally said, “Should we close this? We never talk anymore.”
Before anyone replied, the quietest one of us sent: “Please don’t. You’re the only people who’ve known me longer than my depression.” We haven’t shut up since.
- Today, I ordered coffee after crying in my car for 40 minutes. The barista smiled too wide, the kind that feels like sunlight after the storm.
When I got back to my seat, I noticed she’d written on my cup: “Hey! Your presence makes this morning better.” No name, no number. Just words that hit harder than any therapy session.
I will never throw away that cup.

Beautiful story. Wish there were more barista's like that to make the world go round.
- I got into a taxi to visit my mom’s grave for the first time in years. The driver didn’t speak until he noticed the flowers. He said, “You don’t have to say goodbye all at once.”
We rode in silence after that. When I got out, he handed me a mint and said, “Take care of yourself.” It was the softest thing anyone had said to me all week.
- When I turned 50, it felt like the loneliest birthday of my life, no family, no party, no text messages, not even a single phone call. I went to a small café just to be around people, even if no one knew me.
While sipping my coffee, I muttered to myself that it was my birthday. The waiter overheard and quietly returned with a slice of cake, one candle flickering on top. He softly sang happy birthday, careful not to draw attention, so I wouldn’t feel embarrassed.
It was such a simple gesture, yet it was the kindest birthday gift I never expected.

There was a time, when I was living with just my son and 1 daughter. I had to go with my son to his athletic class, and my youngest sister stayed home with my daughter. When we got home, there were balloons tied to the front porch, we went inside, and found more balloons tied everywhere!! The smell of fresh homemade rolls and stew was coming from the kitchen! My son was almost asleep in my arms, but in the next few seconds, he woke up!! My sister and 4 of my friends piled out of my bedroom and the bathroom yelling "Happy Birthday"!! I'd forgotten it was my own birthday!! Most wonderful and memorable Birthday ever!!!
- My ex and I broke up two years ago, no contact. Yesterday, the barista called my name... and handed me a coffee already paid for by someone who’d left. The cup said, “I wasn’t good to you. Thank you for trying.”
At first, I rolled my eyes, but later I realized the handwriting wasn’t even his. It was his older sister’s. She’d seen me through the window and said it “felt like time to undo something.”
- Last month, I was in the grocery line, exhausted after a brutal week, when the old man behind me tapped my shoulder. I thought he was going to complain about my slow bagging.
Instead, he quietly paid for my entire cart. I tried to refuse, but he said, “Someone did this for me once. Don’t break the chain.”
Later, I learned he’d just lost his wife. That small act became the only bright thing in his day—and in mine.
- I was waiting for the bus when a man sat beside me, shaking his leg nonstop. He kept glancing at his phone, then at me, then back at the road.
Finally, he asked, “Does this look okay?” and showed me a text he drafted to his daughter. He hadn’t spoken to her in 7 years and didn’t know how to start.
I helped him rewrite it. He sent it before he could talk himself out of it.
- We were interviewing a candidate who had the quietest résumé I’d ever seen—almost no experience, no fancy keywords, nothing flashy. But when he walked into the room, every staff member from reception to maintenance greeted him by name.
Turns out he’d been helping them voluntarily for months while job-searching. We hired him on the spot.
- My new roommate and I barely spoke for weeks. No drama, just awkward silence.
One night, he left a handwritten note on the counter: “Tell me what foods you hate, so I don’t cook them.” That cracked everything open. Now we have an actual system—quiet mornings, shared dinners, separate weekends.
He said it’s the first home he’s lived in where people didn’t yell. I didn’t know I could accidentally give someone peace.
- I was working the coffee shop’s chaotic Monday rush when a woman snapped at me for getting her order wrong. I braced for a meltdown, but she suddenly stopped and whispered, “Sorry... bad morning.” I redid her order calmly and she left a huge tip. I was glad I didn’t mirror her stress.
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I believe there is still hope for us. There is still a genuine root of humanity in all of us and it shines when we need it most. Reading those help me never forget that good people aren't extinct. Hugs
If I could read the REST of stories that would be nice!!
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