I Hired a Private Detective to Check My Husband, and Revealed a Truth That Doesn’t Let Me Sleep Peacefully at Night

A woman, 35, has written a letter to our editorial and told us her family story, that made us have mixed feelings and feel for our heroine. She suspected her husband of cheating on her, and hired a private detective to check if she was right. But the truth that she revealed, appeared to be far beyond the ordinary infidelity, and now the woman just can’t come to terms with what her beloved spouse was doing behind her back.

A woman wrote us a letter and told her resonating story.

A woman named Anna, 35, has sent us a letter with a mind-boggling story inside. She said that she and her husband Sam, 37, have been happily married for over 15 years now. Anna revealed that their family has been through many ups and downs, but the spouses have remained a loving couple who supported each other through all these years. This is why she was actually so shocked at what was happening next.

Anna wrote, «Up until recently, I didn’t have a clue about my husband’s vile personality. But all of a sudden, I started being very jealous. I suspected that Sam was cheating on me. No, I didn’t have any ground for this, he was not staying late at work, and he wasn’t distant from me, we didn’t have any change in our relationship either. I just had this gut feeling that he was cheating and that something was very, very wrong with him. Call it intuition or anything else, but I knew it without having any evidence.»

Anna revealed, «I started to feel this around a year ago. And this thought of Sam cheating and me being unaware of it was ruining me. I was questioning my mental health and at first, I attributed my bad thoughts to some kind of depression after the stillbirth that Sam and I went through. I thought I just wasn’t fully recovered yet, as the loss was very big for me. But as time went on, I knew for sure it wasn’t a depression, I was very much disturbed by my suspicions and I felt I had to do something with them.»

Anna was struggling a lot, but nothing helped her get rid of the wrenched feelings.

Anna wrote, «At first, I decided to keep a closer eye on Sam and I still found nothing, no evidence. I checked his phone, all of his messengers and social network accounts, still nothing. I was getting really angry with myself for suspecting my spouse, and I felt guilty for invading his privacy. We even went to marriage counselling. During one of the visits, I even apologized for breaking Sam’s trust in me, and for some time all was well.»

Anna added, «I can’t believe I apologized to that sack of lies my husband had been, and I realized it only now, but better late than never. Anyway, that wretched feeling never left me. I tried so hard to get over that bad feeling that he was lying to me in some way, but I just couldn’t. So, finally, I decided it was time to hire a private detective instead of playing a guessing game myself.»

The shocking revelation hit really hard.

Anna wrote, «Hiring a detective was probably the best way out and the best thing I ever spent money on. Within only one month, the private detective was able to confirm my suspicions. Yes, Sam cheated on me multiple times, and I had a photo proof of this.
But I was even more shocked to find out that it was his stepsister and his stepmother. He had been cheating on me with both of them for a long period of time, and I could’ve never thought that Sam’s ’love of a family’ would turn out to be so disgusting. Another shock was that Sam is actually the father of his stepsister’s newborn baby.»

Anna confessed, «I could’ve turned his life into a nightmare, but I was able to keep my composure and I kept the information I received from an investigator to myself and continued to act as normal as possible. Believe me, that was a very hard period of my life. I slowly started being more distant from him and even moved into our other bedroom we had for guests. We continued to drift apart. I then moved out, got a very good job and started saving money for our divorce. I finally got my life in order.»

Anna now finds it hard to start a new relationship and feels deeply betrayed.

Anna closed her letter, saying, «No matter how successful my life has been without Sam in it, I feel so deeply betrayed and offended that I can’t even think of a new relationship. I have been trying to date other men, I tried both dating apps and meeting with people from my circle, but all in vain. Any time I meet a man, I just have this whole story with Sam appearing on the surface of my mind, and everything fails.»

Anna said that she still hopes for a happy end in her love life and the woman summoned all people who are reading her letter now, to trust their gut feeling, as sometimes it may bring the truth to the surface.

And here’s a story of a woman who saved money on a private investigator and switched on a «detective mode» herself. She found a tampon in her husband’s belongings, and her own investigation led her to a very shocking discovery about her beloved spouse.