Many employees work hard for years, hoping their dedication will pay off, but sometimes companies fail to recognize true loyalty. Finding out you’re the lowest paid despite years of experience can be a painful wake-up call about fairness and respect at work. One of our readers recently shared her story about facing this exact situation after discovering her paycheck didn’t match her commitment.
Dear Bright Side,
I (36, F) have worked at my firm for 9 years—longer than anyone else there. I’ve always done the hardest work, stayed late when needed, and handled weekend calls whenever a deadline was near.
I’ve poured my time, energy, and loyalty into the company, always making sure clients were happy.
But recently, I was shocked when I accidentally found out that I have the lowest salary in my team of 10.
I confronted my boss, but he laughed and said, “You get what you ask for! They’re better negotiators!”
I just smiled and left his office. The next day, everyone froze when I sent an email. I attached various job offers and messages from recruiters who’d been trying to hire me for years. I had been approached by several competitor firms, but always declined.
But now, I announced in the email that I’m giving my two weeks’ notice and leaving.
10 minutes later, HR called me in for an urgent meeting. My boss was there too, suddenly full of concern and apologies. They offered me a raise—one that would make me the highest-paid on the team.
But it was too late. I know they need me because many of their clients rely on me, so losing me would be a big problem for them. I told them my mind was made up.
Still, I wonder—am I being too emotional? After 9 years of hard work, should I stay?
Am I making the wrong choice to leave?
Sincerely,
Nancy
That email you sent was one of the most brilliant "negotiating " techniques I've ever seen. It's too bad you didn't capitalize on its obvious success in waking up your boss and HR! You should also thank your boss for inadvertently giving you the idea, and just enough of a (albeit negative) push to "git er done!"
Thank you so much for sharing your story with us, Nancy. Your frustration is completely understandable—after nine years of dedication, finding out you’re the lowest paid on your team must have felt like a slap in the face.
Still, your next step matters a lot for your career and peace of mind. Here is our advice on how you could handle this situation:
It would be considerable to stay, had they offered too compensate the afore mentioned years, at the amount of the raised wage.
You already showed strength by standing up for your worth. Don’t negotiate further, leave gracefully, and let your absence highlight your real value.
Send a short, professional farewell message to clients and colleagues to preserve your reputation.
Why it matters: Companies often learn the hard way that loyalty is priceless. Your calm exit will speak louder than any argument.
Leaving is totally the right thing to do. Being a pissy little thing by sending out that email to everyone... unprofessional and childish.
If the industry is as tight as this sounds, that could be a huge mistake.
I'm also noting that it doesn't say she had another job, but seems to have quit in a huff. Taking a few weeks to find the best fit (and take the time to negotiate pay) would be a much smarter option.
You’ve proven your boss underestimated you—now use that to your advantage. Instead of burning the bridge, tell HR you’ll stay temporarily if they formalize a leadership role or project autonomy, not just a raise.
Why it matters: You’ll turn a reactionary offer into a structured opportunity. If they refuse, you still leave on top, knowing you demanded real change, not hush money.
Your boss already told you. You get what you ask for. They asked for it. So thats what they get. Make sure hr knows who made you serve them this dish so bitter and cold.
You’re in a powerful position to reposition yourself professionally. Rewrite your résumé and LinkedIn profile emphasizing measurable results—client retention, revenue growth, or projects you managed solo. Add your 9-year tenure as a sign of dependability and long-term value.
Why it matters: Future employers will see you as a senior asset, not just another employee—especially since you left on your own terms.
Being underpaid for years can be emotionally draining, but it also proves your loyalty and stamina.
Look for companies known for transparent pay structures or open salary reviews. Mention your past experience during interviews to show that you’ve learned to advocate for yourself.
Instead of repeating the same cycle, you’ll choose an employer that aligns with your new standard—respect first, promises second.
Another reader also faced a tough situation at work after refusing to go to the office on a weekend during an emergency. Her decision sparked serious consequences from HR and divided opinions.
I wonder why it took 9 years to realise your not paid well compared to your team, however, it's good you have realised. By the letter it seems your management wants to retain you. You got upper hand, it's very difficult to redo what you achieved for 9 years to do again at some place else. If You like the team, if you enjoying what your working, negotiate better and get what you need. Don't think other companies or no different. They all learn same playbook.
OP never said she had another job. Only that she declined offers. If she has another job lined up by all means she should go for it. Otherwise what she did was stoopid with 2 o's
I always leave and get fair compensation, even the difference at the new employment. It just how things work out. In the end, always do what is good for you
I'd quit too. Trust was broken, salary increase wouldn't fix the problem. Not an isolated story. Burn baby burn.
Yeah 👍 leave those cheap bastards
