That's not true anyone can decide not to be a parent anymore and they can drop a child off at a church hospital ect. the foster system is designed to care for children. Abused or not they are not going to run away a child not in this country. They don't have to take you kids away from you if you already don't want them. It's called giving up your parental rights.anyone can do it.
10 Stories That Remind Us to Stay Kind, Even When Life Tries to Break Us

In a world that’s always changing, stories of kindness and courage shine brighter than ever. From small acts of compassion to life-changing generosity, these real-life heroes prove that empathy is our greatest strength. Even in dark times, hope and humanity can light the way forward — showing how everyday people are spreading positivity and proving that kindness can truly change the world.

- My dad died when I was 8. My mom remarried soon after. Her husband didn’t want me, so she sent me to foster care and said, “I’m too young to stop my life.”
15 years later, her daughter found me. I thought she just wanted to know me, that she was curious to see who her half-sister was and then leave.
But I froze when she said, “Our mom just died, it was all so sudden. But she left this to you!” She handed me a letter.
It was handwritten by my mother shortly before she passed. She wrote that she had failed me as a mother, that she’d made the worst mistake of her life by sending me away. She said she finally understood that family always comes first—but she learned it too late.
In her last lines, she begged me not to repeat her mistake: “Now you have the chance to do what I couldn’t. Be close to your sister. She’s the only family you have left. She’s only 14 and she needs you. Please, get to know her and become a family.”
At that moment, I knew I had a life-changing decision to make. Either I turn my back on my sister, or I hug her and try to build the family I never had with her. I chose the second, and I don’t regret it one bit.

It happens every single day, everywhere around the world.
Mom's and dad's should be neutered if they abandon their child.
She obviously turned out better than her mother.
Exactly. There should be a vaccination for children by the time they are 10 or 11, to PREVENT THEM FROM BEING ABLE TO BECOME PREGNANT, OR GET SOMEONE PREGNANT. Then it should only be reversible for those who can safely, emotionally and financially care for them. I know this sounds like Big Brother, but children should NOT have to suffer because they are born to IDIOTS that think you can JUST DROP THEM OFF SOMEWHERE, WHEN YOU DON'T WANT THEM.
I agree but this sadly isn't how vaccinations work. Vaccinations take advantage of the white blood cells in our body recognizing a small sample of a sickness or a "dead" version of it and creating defenses specifically for that sickness, so that in the future we're less likely to get sick from it. The only way we can prevent pregnancies is through more preventative care awareness because other operations are far too damaging to a still-developing body. Again not disagreeing with the sentiment but just opening the floor for different potential ways of handling it
I AM AWARE, DEAR. I WAS JUST EMPHASIZING THE POINT, THAT EVEN WITH BIRTH CONTROL, ABSTINENCE IS THE ONLY TRU WAYS TO PREVENT PREGNANCY.
Lots of bitter opinions on here. People change when they learn they're dying. Some people start spewing apologies and forgiveness. Some people completely shut down and say nothing. Grief is heavy.
The step dad might still be around. It doesn't say the 14 yr old has no family. It just says the Mom wants the sisters to be close. I'm sure the Mom knows the sister will need someone other than just the step dad to help her through the death. Who better than the sister she hadn't had a chance to meet. Grieve together and form a bond.
Your mother wants to pass the buck to you, probably her father doesn’t want her. Not your problem nor responsibility.
Wow ! How bitter are you ... we all make mistakes small & large. And we learn from others mistakes aslo . You sounds like a very selfish person.... probably best to not have children yourself.
It’s my opinion & I’m sticking to it. If you don’t like my opinion scroll on by.
That wasn't a mistake. It was a well thought out plan. Now she wants to make sure that her daughter is taken care of. I'm glad that her brother is able to accept her. But the mother if she had truly been remorseful she would have contacted her son before she died.
She chose the SECOND option which was to hug her sister and build family with her. How is that selfish?
She was calling Annmarie's response selfish, not the OP.
To abandon your 8 year old daughter for a dude is not a big mistake, it's a human crusher. She killed her daughter emotionally. She broke her daughter's heart and did a big on it and then had a family afterwards and still never went back to get her daughter.
I agree with you, and per Annmarie's request, she is now blocked. No one needs that kind of hatred towards a young person trying to figure it out.
That was my first thought as well. The mother was desperate to find someone to care for her teenage daughter. If family comes first why did she wait till she was dying.
100%. Where was the stepfather that the mother was willing to kick her first child out for? Surely he should have been there to raise his own daughter after his wife died. I bet he ran as soon as the mom got sick and that's what made her suddenly decide that she regretted putting her first child into the system. Because if it had been something that she actually felt bad about and wanted to make amends for she had had years to do it before she was dying.
None of the past matter's, a child that is her sister needs her and that should be all matters..
Maybe the mother knew the father was no good.
How is it "passing the buck""? Her mother gave her information, based on her own experience with abandoning a child. The OP HAD a choice this time. She didn't, when she was 8. Being so hateful is a sad way to express your opinion.
- When I was 21, I worked at a call center where people yelled daily — rent overdue, bills piling up, nothing left to give.
One man called screaming about a late fee. I let him finish, then said, “You sound like you’re having a rough day.” He went quiet. Then he started crying.
We talked for ten minutes. He apologized. I forgave him.
To this date, that was the most unforgettable call I ever had.
- After my marriage ended, I moved into an empty apartment with nothing but a mattress and a lamp.
The delivery guy brought my first meal in days, Chinese takeout. He said, “You look like you need chopsticks and a joke.”
He told me a joke, I don’t remember what it was now, but I laughed. For the first time in weeks, I wasn’t angry. He took my number.
2 days later, he called me. We became friends and soon after we fell in love.
2 years later, he is now my husband and the love of my life.
- I was working the late shift at a diner after my divorce. A man yelled at me because his fries were cold.
Normally, I would’ve walked away. Instead, I smiled at him. He blinked, sat down, and started talking about losing his job. I refilled his coffee and listened.
People break differently — sometimes kindness is just holding the pieces steady for a minute.
- Last year, when my landlord taped an eviction notice to my door, I didn’t even have the energy to be angry.
That night, the pizza delivery guy looked exhausted — drenched from rain, apologizing for being late. I was seconds from snapping. Instead, I tipped him the few dollars I had left. He stared at me like I’d given him a gift.
As he walked away, I realized: being kind didn’t fix my problems. But it made me feel like I still had a choice.
- After my mom’s passing, I barely left the house. One evening, I noticed my elderly neighbor’s steps covered in snow. I grabbed a shovel and cleared them before she got home.
When I finished, I stood there in the cold, breathing hard, tears freezing on my cheeks. For the first time in months, the world felt a little lighter.
- In high school, I was too embarrassed to admit I’d lost my backpack. A classmate quietly handed me hers and said, “Keep it, I’ve got another at home.” She never mentioned it again.
Years later, I found her working in the airport I was passing through. She didn’t remember me, but I did. I told her I’d graduated, thanks in part to her kindness.
She laughed, shrugged, and said, “We all carry each other sometimes.”
I cried at Gate 42 like a child.
- My father was dying, and I hadn’t slept in three days. I stepped into the hospital elevator, and a woman spilled her coffee all over me. She looked terrified — her hands were shaking.
I could’ve lost it, but I just said, “It’s okay. I’ve been there.”
She whispered, “My husband’s in surgery.”
So was my dad. For a second, our pain felt shared instead of separate.

- A woman dropped a ring at the park, I saw it sparkle on the lawn near the bench. I was grieving myself, worn down and angry at everything.
But I ran after her, called out, and placed it in her palm. She said, “That was my wedding ring. My husband died 4 days ago.”
I smiled, thinking: I’d lost something too. But for a moment, I’d found grace.
- I failed my final exam after months of studying, and I sat crying on the campus steps while people rushed past. One janitor stopped, handed me a tissue, and said, “Grades don’t measure how much light you put in the world.”
I eventually graduated and became a lawyer, but that one line was the greatest lesson I carried through college. It stuck with me more than anything a professor ever taught.
Sometimes, it’s not so easy to rush to someone’s rescue. Recently, Elaine wrote to us about how she refused to go into the office one weekend during an emergency — but what happened next took her by surprise.
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