That's not true anyone can decide not to be a parent anymore and they can drop a child off at a church hospital ect. the foster system is designed to care for children. Abused or not they are not going to run away a child not in this country. They don't have to take you kids away from you if you already don't want them. It's called giving up your parental rights.anyone can do it.
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Actually there is an age limit for the safe haven laws the state with the longest has a 90 days old limit the one with the least has a 3 days old limit. Perhaps do some research before commenting something. If you abandon a child outside of those times you can face jail time
Also giving up your parental right requires a lengthy investigation, mandatory parenting classes and even a psychological evaluation.
And isn't that the saddest thing ever? WHERE do you think those kids can go, when their parents WANT THEM to stay at home, so that they CAN ABUSE THEM? The FOSTER CARE SYSTEM is NOT designed to care for children. It is designed to FIND SOMEONE TO CARE FOR CHILDREN. They are tremendously over burdened, because of it. If more money and research was spent on teaching BIRTH CONTROL, AND ABSTINENCE, there would be fewer unwanted children in this world. People abuse their kids, and especially their FOSTER KIDS every day. REAL EFFECTIVE BIRTH CONTROL, SHOULD REDUCE THE NEED FOR FOSTER CARE AS A WAY OF LIFE FOR SO MANY. The kids ALWAYS PAY THE HIGHEST PRICE.
I am not saying this isn't true however it's incredibly unbelievable. Or there was a lot more going on then we are led to believe. I was in foster care for 15 years. You can't just drop a child off in foster care that is considered child abandonment. There has to be proof of abuse or neglect and even then there are months if not years of court and home visits before they will allow for that.
Not true. I know I worked in foster care
Foster care isn't a on demand system for overwhelmed parents there's only three ways a child can end up in foster care through involuntary relinquishment which requires a thorough investigation and a mandated court order The second is through voluntary relinquishment which again requires a thorough investigation and a mandatory court order The third is only in about five states within the United States The third is a program for low-income parents to temporarily relinquish their rights to their child while they are earning money or going through detox programs or things like that however again it requires a thorough investigation and a mandated court order
I was military and we had foster families that specificly took children when their parent went on feild exercises. I also had freinds in Florida who would relinquish custody of their kids when they were broke, work to build their bank , then take them back.Not everyone has a relative who can step in when life goes south.
Both of those situations are different and in both situations the child returned to the bio parents. Also in these situations there are extenuating circumstances and most likely they are not considered actually foster kids. As for the friends in Florida I would ask them what it took for them to truly replenish custody even temporarily. There was definitely court appearance and custody hearings.
Do some research on what child abandonment is. Even leaving your child in foster care without a court order is considered abandonment and can result in jail time and fines
You may have worked in foster care, but were you ever a foster child? The experience is very different if you were in the system.
If she worked in foster care she would know that child abandonment is child abandonment even if the abandonment is at a CPS office or safe haven. All states have a safe haven time limit 90 days being the most.
- My dad died when I was 8. My mom remarried soon after. Her husband didn’t want me, so she sent me to foster care and said, “I’m too young to stop my life.”
15 years later, her daughter found me. I thought she just wanted to know me, that she was curious to see who her half-sister was and then leave.
But I froze when she said, “Our mom just died, it was all so sudden. But she left this to you!” She handed me a letter.
It was handwritten by my mother shortly before she passed. She wrote that she had failed me as a mother, that she’d made the worst mistake of her life by sending me away. She said she finally understood that family always comes first—but she learned it too late.
In her last lines, she begged me not to repeat her mistake: “Now you have the chance to do what I couldn’t. Be close to your sister. She’s the only family you have left. She’s only 14 and she needs you. Please, get to know her and become a family.”
At that moment, I knew I had a life-changing decision to make. Either I turn my back on my sister, or I hug her and try to build the family I never had with her. I chose the second, and I don’t regret it one bit.

It happens every single day, everywhere around the world.
Mom's and dad's should be neutered if they abandon their child.
She obviously turned out better than her mother.
- When I was 21, I worked at a call center where people yelled daily — rent overdue, bills piling up, nothing left to give.
One man called screaming about a late fee. I let him finish, then said, “You sound like you’re having a rough day.” He went quiet. Then he started crying.
We talked for ten minutes. He apologized. I forgave him.
To this date, that was the most unforgettable call I ever had.
- After my marriage ended, I moved into an empty apartment with nothing but a mattress and a lamp.
The delivery guy brought my first meal in days, Chinese takeout. He said, “You look like you need chopsticks and a joke.”
He told me a joke, I don’t remember what it was now, but I laughed. For the first time in weeks, I wasn’t angry. He took my number.
2 days later, he called me. We became friends and soon after we fell in love.
2 years later, he is now my husband and the love of my life.
- I was working the late shift at a diner after my divorce. A man yelled at me because his fries were cold.
Normally, I would’ve walked away. Instead, I smiled at him. He blinked, sat down, and started talking about losing his job. I refilled his coffee and listened.
People break differently — sometimes kindness is just holding the pieces steady for a minute.
- Last year, when my landlord taped an eviction notice to my door, I didn’t even have the energy to be angry.
That night, the pizza delivery guy looked exhausted — drenched from rain, apologizing for being late. I was seconds from snapping. Instead, I tipped him the few dollars I had left. He stared at me like I’d given him a gift.
As he walked away, I realized: being kind didn’t fix my problems. But it made me feel like I still had a choice.
- After my mom’s passing, I barely left the house. One evening, I noticed my elderly neighbor’s steps covered in snow. I grabbed a shovel and cleared them before she got home.
When I finished, I stood there in the cold, breathing hard, tears freezing on my cheeks. For the first time in months, the world felt a little lighter.
- In high school, I was too embarrassed to admit I’d lost my backpack. A classmate quietly handed me hers and said, “Keep it, I’ve got another at home.” She never mentioned it again.
Years later, I found her working in the airport I was passing through. She didn’t remember me, but I did. I told her I’d graduated, thanks in part to her kindness.
She laughed, shrugged, and said, “We all carry each other sometimes.”
I cried at Gate 42 like a child.
- My father was dying, and I hadn’t slept in three days. I stepped into the hospital elevator, and a woman spilled her coffee all over me. She looked terrified — her hands were shaking.
I could’ve lost it, but I just said, “It’s okay. I’ve been there.”
She whispered, “My husband’s in surgery.”
So was my dad. For a second, our pain felt shared instead of separate.

- A woman dropped a ring at the park, I saw it sparkle on the lawn near the bench. I was grieving myself, worn down and angry at everything.
But I ran after her, called out, and placed it in her palm. She said, “That was my wedding ring. My husband died 4 days ago.”
I smiled, thinking: I’d lost something too. But for a moment, I’d found grace.
- I failed my final exam after months of studying, and I sat crying on the campus steps while people rushed past. One janitor stopped, handed me a tissue, and said, “Grades don’t measure how much light you put in the world.”
I eventually graduated and became a lawyer, but that one line was the greatest lesson I carried through college. It stuck with me more than anything a professor ever taught.
Sometimes, it’s not so easy to rush to someone’s rescue. Recently, Elaine wrote to us about how she refused to go into the office one weekend during an emergency — but what happened next took her by surprise.
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