I think this is complete rubbish. I have 3 children. My youngest, a boy, struggled with an apprenticeship he found difficult. Every mile stone he achieved, I bought a card, saying we'll done. Inside i put how proud I was of him. I know this gave him confidence to carry on , that he might be the apprentice in the workshop just now, but one day he would be fully qualified.
The appreciation that I had taken the bother to say these words, in a small card, gave him confidence to keep going.
Now he's a body repair specialist with a big German car company.
It costs nothing to reiterate to your children that you're proud of them, even if you 'think' they know.
16 Moments That Show Kindness Is the Hand That Pulls Us Back From the Edge

Sometimes life backs us into corners so tight we forget there’s a way out. But then a stranger holds a door open — not just literally, but emotionally — and suddenly we remember we’re not alone in this mess. These 16 stories are proof that kindness doesn’t need to be grand to be life-changing. A single moment of someone choosing compassion over indifference can become the turning point we didn’t know we were waiting for.
- My father never once said he was proud of me. Not at graduation, not at my wedding, never. When he died, I found a storage unit in his name.
Inside were boxes of every article ever written about me, every award announcement, every mention. The walls were covered in my photos. He’d been proud every single day. He just never had the words.
- My elderly neighbor stopped waving at me three months ago. After twenty years of morning waves, suddenly nothing. I assumed I’d offended her somehow.
Last week, her daughter came by and handed me a box. Inside were forty hand-knit scarves. Her mother’s arthritis had gotten so bad she could barely lift her arm, but she’d spent those three months making scarves for every person on the street who’d ever been kind to her. Mine was on top.
- The homeless man outside my office suddenly disappeared. He’d been there for two years. I assumed the worst.
Three months later, I saw him in a suit, walking into the building across the street. The security guard there had noticed he always read discarded newspapers cover to cover. He’d quietly recommended him for their mailroom. The man now manages their entire internal distribution department.

If a parent never says he or she never proud of you doesn't mean that he or she is not proud of you just don't know how to say it.
These stories never actually happened. These are fake news. Think about it for a second. If all of these were written by random people from random places, then the writing styles would all be different. But the writing style is exactly the same in all of them. And the same scenarios keep repeating. I’ve read so many stories of the father who never said I love you, only to pass away. Then they mysteriously find a… in this case was a whole storage unit, but in others it’s a locked box, and yet in others it’s a shoebox or whatever, and it’s always filled with letters, etc. And then, instead of feeling bad for not trying to reconnect with their mom/dad/whoever… btw, this is what real people feel..regret… all they can say is, “wow… this person was so kind and compassionate…. Come on. This isn’t how real life works.
I don’t think parents have the obligation to show their kids that they’re proud of them. Raising kids and providing food and home is more than enough. you can’t demand from parents to be their children’s cheerleaders
So you don't think that ENCOURAGEMENT, OR PRAISE IS NECESSARY? If your child shows NO ambition, you would yell at them to get motivated and DO something. So WHY wouldn't you show the same amount of effort for their accomplishments? Providing "food and a home" IS THEIR LEGAL OBLIGATION. If they didn't want the responsibility of actually engaging with THEIR OWN CHILDREN, then they SHOULD NOT HAVE HAD THEM. I suppose you think that having a pet, means chaining them up in the backyard and leaving them there, too. You are a waste of space.
Sounds harsh but I agree. Actually I think making your kids believe you’re proud of them just spoils them. They need to learn how to succeed on their own
My dad didn't tell me that he loved me and he didn't tell me that he was proud of me. I don't think he was proud.He eventually told me that he loved me and I believed him then. We had a very troubled relationship with fights that ended with me walking out. He always thought that he knew better and that I should ask him for advice. I didn't until I was in Art School and my instructor told me that I was doing something wrong in my 3d Art piece. Dad was a builder and extremely good at it. I called him and asked if she was right. He was beside himself. I was right. He called me 3 times that day with more information. He died 4 days later. He got his lifelong wish, I asked him for advice. No I don't blame myself for his death. I do agree that we had completion and he was free.
Was someone mean to you...who hurt you....hurt people hurt people..why in the hell do you feel you shouldn't be kind to your kids by showing encouragement and praise
My mother's favourite expression when I did anything well or what I'd like to haave done was 'Don't talk wet. My father once scolded me (as sn adult)in public, for 'telling stories and that people were laughing at me for making things up. Thing is, they happened to be true. A round 2 earthquakes-two occasions, same country. Gun impeachment at rear of hotel and soldiers openly displaying weapons in the street. Only happens in places where people like me wouldn't be allowed.
My dad is the same
He never says a word but I feel it
These stories never actually happened. These are fake news. Think about it for a second. If all of these were written by random people from random places, then the writing styles would all be different. But the writing style is exactly the same in all of them. And the same scenarios keep repeating. I’ve read so many stories of the father who never said I love you, only to pass away. Then they mysteriously find a… in this case was a whole storage unit, but in others it’s a locked box, and yet in others it’s a shoebox or whatever, and it’s always filled with letters, etc. And then, instead of feeling bad for not trying to reconnect with their mom/dad/whoever… btw, this is what real people feel..regret… all they can say is, “wow… this person was so kind and compassionate…. Come on. This isn’t how real life works.
I’ve seen magazines which invited readers to send stories but required that all the stories have the same format. Could be a similar requirement here.
As they aged the parent could have sent them a noteLetter. Text. Anything. This child based his SELF on believing he was not loved or good enough
So much could have been LIVED WITH ONE SMALL ACKNOWLEDGEMENT.
MENTAL ISSUES FROM FATHERS PAST RUINED HIS AND SONS PRESENT TO FUTURE.
DONT SAVE THOSE FEELINGS.
THE GOOD CHINA. THE FANCY UNDRRCLOTHES. YOUR FAVORITE DRESS
OR ACTIVITY.
SUCH A LOSS
OF LIFE FOR SOMEONE TO JUST DISCARD OR WORSE
BURY YOU IN.
Does 'Mental health have to crop up everywhere? Seems fashionable to say you are On the spectrum, have ADHD or a mental health issue, often from a quiz on Internet. Whan I was at school these yhings were kept hidden, not something to be proud of.
- The woman at the grocery store always paid in exact change, counting coins slowly while the line grew. People sighed and rolled their eyes.
One day the cashier was crying after her shift. That woman had been leaving one extra pennies every time, and over three years, had quietly accumulated enough for the cashier to take her kids to the beach. She’d figured out the cashier couldn’t afford a vacation from a conversation years ago.
- I noticed my grandmother kept buying the same puzzle over and over. I worried about her memory. When I mentioned it, she laughed.
She donated each completed puzzle to the senior centers. She just loved the ritual of finishing and giving. She’d been doing it for fifteen years.
- The mail carrier always left my packages at the wrong door. I’ve complained multiple times. Then my neighbor knocked one day, packages in hand, tears streaming down her face. She was housebound and the mail carrier had been doing it intentionally so she’d have a reason to interact with someone daily.
- The barista always spelled my name wrong. Every single day for three years. I never corrected her.
On my last day before moving, she handed me a cup with my name spelled correctly and a note. She knew my name. She’d misspelled it intentionally because watching me smile at the ridiculous versions was the highlight of her mornings.
- The mechanic who worked on my car always took three days longer than promised. I was ready to find someone else.
Then I noticed he never charged me for parts. His son loved watching car repairs. The extra time was just him letting his boy help turn the wrenches. Every extra day was a memory he was building with his child.
- My husband kept a locked box in his closet. After four years, my mind went to dark places. When he caught me trying to open it, he sighed and showed me.
Inside were dozens of letters he’d written to me but never sent, for every argument we’d had. He’d write out his anger, then lock it away instead of saying things he couldn’t take back.

Another MAN WHO HAD HE DIED HIS WIFE WOULD NEVER HAVE KNOW HIS REMORSE AND APOLOGIES. REAL FEELINGS. FOR YEARS. IMAGINE HER SORROW TO NOT KNOW AND HAVE TALKED IT OUT( OR EVEN IF THEY WROTE IT OUT) after his death.
WHAT A WASTE OF TIME AND LOVE FOR THEIR RELATIONSHIP. BUT FORTUNATELY HE GOT TO SHARE THEM AND PROBABLY HELP THEIR MARRIAGE.
DONT WAIT. LIFE IS TOO SHORT. FEEL IT. TELL IT. SHARE IT.
- I found my teenage daughter’s secret social media account. I braced myself.
It was entirely dedicated to posting photos of elderly people she saw eating alone at restaurants, with captions about imagining their life stories. She’d been buying desserts for strangers for two years, documenting kindness, not trouble.
- My aunt collected dolls. Hundreds of them, filling every room. We all thought she was eccentric.
When she passed, each doll had a tag with a child’s name and address. She’d been making and sending them to children in foster care for fifteen years. She kept one of each as a reminder of every child she’d tried to comfort.
- I found out my teenage daughter had been telling her friends I was strict and mean. I was hurt until I overheard her conversation.
She’d been using me as an excuse so her friends wouldn’t pressure her into things she didn’t want to do. She’d rather they think I was the bad guy than admit she wasn’t comfortable.
- My father always fell asleep during my school plays. Every single one. I carried that hurt for decades.
At his retirement party, his coworker mentioned that dad had worked double shifts to afford the private school that had the drama program I loved. He wasn’t bored. He was exhausted from giving me everything.

Understandable that a teenager would prefer not to let on about being uncomfortable doing what her friends are doing. But not really right. At least she should have coordinated with her parent first.
- My nanny quit suddenly after 3 years. Said she “couldn’t do it anymore.” I checked the hidden camera.
Every night, she’d wait until my daughter was asleep. Then she’d stand over her for exactly 10 minutes. Whispering.
I enhanced the audio. She was saying the same lullaby her own grandmother used to sing to her in Portuguese before she passed.
She quit because saying those words every night had finally broken through her grief, and she needed to go home to reconnect with her family. She sends my daughter postcards from Lisbon now.
- My college roommate borrowed five thousand dollars and disappeared. I spent years bitter.
Last month, I received an envelope with the money and a letter. She’d been homeless after her parents kicked her out. She’d spent fifteen years rebuilding her life and tracking me down.
The interest she included went to her daughter’s education fund per my request.
- The man at the dog park never picked up after his dog. I finally confronted him. He showed me his hands, shaking uncontrollably.
He came to the park because it was the only place his dog could run free, but he couldn’t manage the bags anymore. Now I show up with extra bags, and we walk our dogs together.
In a world that often rewards the loudest voice, these people chose a different path — and the results will restore your faith in humanity. Read 15 Times People Refused to Be Mean and Kindness Proved More Powerful and prepare to feel something real.
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I love this kind of stories. Author thank you for sharing with us some inspiration that kind ppl still exist
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