10 Brave Women Reveal Their Most Embarrassing Moments
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One of our readers sent us a letter seeking advice on what to do when his girlfriend’s kids keep throwing away good food. He doesn’t want this to be the final straw in their relationship.
Mike, 36, told us his story that may resonate with many. He opened his letter, saying, “Hi Bright Side! I’ve seen so many people writing you to get help and clarity, so I decided to be brave and tell you my story.” He then followed to explain what happened to him, “I’ve been dating a woman for more than 3 years. She has 2 kids, which I adore. But what has been bugging me is that we deal with money in different ways.”
He then continued, "She always struggled financially, which I don't mind because I know how hard it must be to be a single mother of two. So I decided to help pay for her groceries. Since the beginning of our relationship, I noticed that she allows her kids to choose whatever they want. I saw food expiring on her pantry a lot of times."
Mike goes on with his story, revealing, "Recently, we went to the supermarket and the kids picked tons of cookies. When we arrived at her home, I saw in her pantry cookies with bugs on them. I flipped out. When the kids went out to play, I talked to her about what kept happening, but she told me I was overreacting."
He told us his big plans, "Although this bothered me in the past, now it's becoming more unbearable because I want to ask her and her kids to move in with me. I don't want this kind of behavior in our home. I grew up poor, so buying unnecessary food and wasting it is a big red flag to me. What should I do?"
Handling the issue calmly and constructively can not only help reduce food waste but also strengthen your relationship with your girlfriend and her kids by showing that you care and are willing to work together as a family.