Parents always want the best for their children, yet, even the kindest intentions might not be your kid’s priority. The main character of this story didn’t expect that life would twist so much after his daughter suddenly got pregnant. We share his story and give some tips on how to make things right.
Our reader shared his problem with us asking for advice.
Thank you for sharing your story with us! We understand that you feel upset about the fact that your daughter gave up her dreams. However, it’s her decision and there isn’t much you can do about it if she’s determined to lead such a life. We’re here to help you with your problem and here are some possible solutions that might fix the situation.
Accept her decision.
Most of us might push our dreams onto our kids, but it’s important to let them have their own goals. You’re allowed to have feelings and, no doubt, you can love someone but still be disappointed by their choices. Nevertheless, give her space and let her know that you still love her.
Successful parenting isn’t about turning your child into who you want them to be, but making them confident in who they want to be. If your daughter is happy, it’s all that matters.
Help her finish the studies.
Your daughter might have quit studying because she probably thinks she can’t combine both things. You can try taking care of her baby for some time and let your daughter study. You can come and pick her baby up when your daughter has classes.
Additionally, you might also consider paying for a babysitter if you don’t have time to do it yourself. Another option is to find out if her school can offer online classes.
Not everything in life revolves around career.
Choosing marriage over career is a personal choice. It’s perfectly okay if it aligns with your daughter’s values and desires. Some feel happier when they dedicate themselves to their families and home life, while others may miss the sense of accomplishment that comes from work.
Happiness can hide in many things: seeing sun beams on a rainy day, drinking tea on the porch or laughing with your loved one. It’s possible that your daughter is the one who finds her happiness at home.
Cheer her up and let her know she’s loved.
Your daughter needs to know that she’s loved, and you’re going to be there for her. Don’t let her go through life thinking she can’t count on your support. Try to have a heart-to-heart conversation with her and apologize for the words that hurt her.
According to a study, a good father-daughter relationship boosts her self-esteem and positively influences her early adulthood. Talking costs you nothing but may mean so much to her. Let her know that she’s still loved even if she made a different choice.
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