I’m Childfree, I Left My Legacy to My Nephew, My Stepson Is Furious

You getting what you asked for you acted like a bitch now you're suffering the wrath

Wow, lady you have lived too long. To be this dumb, blood alone does not make family. Family is about love, care, compassion, loyalty and being there for that person, when they need you or you need them. You reaped what you showed.

Wowwwwww but it's your own fault how could you say that to someone you raised from the age of 8 your getting everything you deserve

You deserve everything you got. You're an awful person.

Well, if this is real you deserve what you get. You raised a child. And threw him away. You lost your grandchildren. Why for "Blood"... Your "blood" is obviously just like you.

Wow,just wow. How can you be so cruel and heartless. Shame on you. BTW.. look up FAFO means .You found out I hope

So the son you raised as your own gets nothing. No wonder your Husband is furious you disregarded his son. Is blood thicker than water in this case??? You deserve all coming your way.

You got nothing you can do. You deserve this

You have A LOT of begging for forgiveness to do and quite a bit of introspection too. I cannot imagine ever wanting to be around someone who raised me since I was 8 years old and telling me I'm not family after all this time. The amount of hurt you have caused may be irreparable and it may be the end of your marriage.

What an uncaring and ignorant person you are. That attitude and religion are two of the main problems with the world. Here's what you do: you tell your nephew that because you wanted to keep your house in the family, his decision to sell it is a deal breaker, contact your stepson and apologize while also letting him know that he will inherit the house. You made an incredibly bad and insensitive decision based on false premises. I grieve for the planet because of people like
you.

Wow! You absolutely do not understand the meaning of "child free". You were NOT child free, you had a step son that you helped raise since age 8 and then decided he didn't deserve an inheritance because he wasn't really family since he didn't have YOUR blood?!?!?! I'd go no contact with a step mother like you. You are a horrible person.

Thats just wrong u will pay for every bit of that and I hope for the sake of ur stepsons kids he needs to keep them away from you your not family you dont know what love and care is you dont deserve to have them in your life and if I was your spouse id bounce

Wow. Blood doesn't define family. You sound awful. You've earned every bit of loneliness you experience going forward. I hope your husband leaves now that he's found out what you really are.

You're disgusting. You don't get to pick when your stepson is family and when he's not. Enjoy your loneliness. You deserve it.

WOW your a piece of work. First your claim is that you weren't even that close to your nephew. But because of genetics. Well. That was all that mattered. Then your step son cuts you out if his life. But that was ok. Because. Sell you were willing to go fown the eith your shio. Until. Then all of a sudden when you find out your beloved nephews plan for your sacred house.....now you have the audacity to reach out to him!?? Lady you got your family and priorities messed up. That house would be going to your step son after I asked to be forgiven....if he will even forgive you.

I feel like I've seen this story too many times for it to be real. for the sake of argument, I understand wanting to keep a family legacy in the family but maybe consider everything else going to the son. unless the house is all she has and then she's done a poor job of planning for her own future.

You made your bed, burned your bridges and now want to figure out what to do?!!! Plan a life alone after your husband files for divorce.

I get it.., she wanted to leave the inheritance in her family. what's wrong with that?

All the complaints we often read about issues between a stepparent and a stepchild, and here you had one that actually cared about you that you dumped on. I hope the 'blood' nephew gets the house. I hope he sells it. And I think your stepson is justified. You just told him that he and his family mean little to you. This nonsense about blood relatives is ridiculous. Sometimes, they're a damn curse. It probably wouldn't even pay to change anything now since your true feelings are already out there.

People its family property. It is pass from family to family. Sorry a step child is not fami ly to everyone in the family because you married their father. Especially when it comes to family property or family heirlooms.

Wow. I find it hard to believe that people can be this ice cold. Your husband should divorce you, since you’re not blood related you’re OBVIOUSLY not family. You’d think someone at this big age would be wise, but I find you to be disgustingly cruel for that viewpoint.

No point apologizing now, the damage is done. It’s permanent.

Wow! You are a real piece of work! Feel bad for step son. Good to hear he did the right thing cutting you off. Have a miserable life.

I would have walked away from you and said that since I'm not your real family don't even think you have any right to see or talk to me or my children. MY FAMILY IS THE ONES I CHOSE. MY BLOOD FAMILY HAS NEVER CARED ABOUT ANYONE OR ANYTHING BUT MONEY. BLOOD DOESN'T MAKE FAMILY LOVE DOES.

You're just a little late asking that question. Also, if you think BLOOD MAKES A REAL FAMILY, well you got what you wanted. I hope you live a very long and miserable existence. You are another poster child for sterilization!

Wow, that's stings as your step son, he wasn't 16, he was as 8
Raised mine from 11 and he's getting my 401k, my biological children will get something as well but it won't be my 401k, that belongs to the boy I raised before I had children