I Discovered I’m Not the Biological Mother of Our Son — Now I’m Divorcing My Husband

Relationships may start with butterflies and adrenalin rushes, but as time goes on, life gets busy. Kids, careers, routines, physical changes in your body and health, everything competes for time and that spark you felt can slowly fade away. This is exactly what happened to one of our Bright Side readers, who shared his story with us, and got us all starry eyed. Here’s how.
Hi Bright Side,
I have a rather unexpected story to share with you, and it’s about my wife and our relationship. She had been feeling down about her looks after gaining weight from hormonal changes. She had always talked about getting lip fillers.
After a decade of marriage and two kids, she finally did. I didn’t love the idea, but I wanted to be supportive. After all, it’s her body and her choice. When she walked in, beaming with confidence, I froze. She looked at me, and I finally blurted, “Oh my God, you look stunning!” She lit up!
Her entire face had changed; like she was already very beautiful, but now, she glowed. Even though her lips were swollen and took about a fortnight to achieve the look that she wanted, she looked amazing. More than the lip fillers, it was the fact that she was able to do something for herself and make a change that she really wanted to.
I admit, I was never a fan of cosmetic procedures, but it’s not just the lip fillers that are making her look more beautiful. She’s happy, and since I supported her, that spark in our marriage that was fizzling out is back. She laughs more, touches me more. I brought her flowers, booked us a date night at her favorite sushi place.
My kids are making faces at us, making gagging noises, and generally being hilariously sarcastic. My younger daughter calls us “old lovebirds,” while my older one declared that we are “shameless canoodlers!”
It’s true, we’ve rediscovered our love for each other, and it’s amazing! Can you share some tips with me on how to let this spark remain, for the rest of our lives?
A happy husband,
Gerard Nolan
Dear Gerard, what a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing it with us, and making our day. It’s so wonderful to see that you supported your wife, and how your relationship became even better because of it. Frankly, you two are setting couple goals and don’t need any advice from us, but here’s what we think every couple could do to remain in love.
Not only have you managed to keep the fun alive in your marriage, the love between you two seeps through the letter you wrote, and it truly brightened our day. Just like the romance between Sarah Michelle Gellar and Freddie Prinze Jr., who are setting couple goals for us to follow!