Along with the joy of having a baby, many women struggle with their body image after pregnancy. New stretch marks and a few extra pounds make them feel less beautiful and unattractive. However, that’s not how their husbands feel. In fact, many men admit that they find their wives even more attractive after having a baby.
We at Bright Side want to share some men’s opinions to support and empower new mothers.
The anticipation of becoming a new father may make a man feel like a new era has started not only in his partnership with his spouse, but also for his own personality. He gets a chance to see his wife and himself from a new, fascinating angle. Justin Ervin proves this by posting touching words dedicated to his wife, Ashley Graham on his Instagram: “These 9 years have played out like a lifetime. I guess it’s because my life really started once you came into it. Now that we’ve made a life together, let’s make a life together. I love you and I love us. All of us...”
In the thread “Unpopular Opinion” on Reddit, a user posted a statement that women become more attractive after having kids. Most of the users agreed, saying that they found their wives more appealing after they gave birth to 1, 2, and even 5 kids. One user wrote: “My wife has had 2 kids and she’s hotter now than ever. I tell her this constantly.”
Giving birth to a child is the most selfless act that a woman can perform. It’s a huge emotional and physical sacrifice, and after having a baby, a woman’s responsibility increases greatly. But they never complain and manage to gain more and more strength every single day.
Even with a baby that needs attention 24/7, women always find time to take care of their husbands. They always stand by their men, ready to support them through all of life’s ups and downs.
Any man who witnesses the pregnancy and birth of his child can admit that his wife did something impossible. It’s beyond men’s understanding, and therefore, inspires endless love and respect.
A new baby changes everything, especially the relationship between the parents. This experience creates an even deeper love, a very special bond, and brings the couple closer together.
Women give their husbands the most precious gift — a loving family. And men will be forever grateful for it.
We hope that all mothers continue to feel appreciated by their husbands. Do you have kids? How does your husband support you? Share your thoughts in the comments!
Based on evolution, we have learned that men are attracted to women who have wide hips because they can bare a child really well, also, if a women already proved that she can do the job it only makes this feeling stronger. I think at least ? I could be wrong
that's really good to hear! I know some women are scared that they will look bad after giving birth!
As a man, woman with kids is less attractive. You want to start a family, you know have to stand the ex coming back at any moment, not your blood, specially where you are 20-35, somebody has to say it, not attractive at all in a girl
