A Man Opens Up How He Found a Way to Stop Cheating, Now the Family Is Ready to Welcome His FIFTH Wife

Relationships
9 months ago

A self-proclaimed serial cheater, who is about to welcome his fifth wife, justifies his choice to have multiple partners, claiming it helps him avoid cheating. Since a young age, Jerome has recognized his difficulty staying faithful and believes that being with one woman wouldn’t fulfill all his needs. However, as an adult, he found happiness in polyamory, where he has multiple romantic partners with everyone’s consent.

Jerome has found happiness through polyamory.

Jerome confesses that he used to have a new partner daily, “It seemed like I was visiting the health department every weekend. I had relationships with multiple partners. I always felt that no single woman could fulfill all my desires.”

But six years ago, Jerome finally met the partner he wanted to marry, “Big Jasmine,” a woman he praises for being able to cook, clean, and be hot. But the beginning of their relationship was somewhat confusing because Jerome was already in a relationship with someone else. Then, after he won Jasmine over, he ended up cheating on her.

Fortunately, the couple managed to reconcile their differences and eventually tied the knot. They decided that a closed polyamory dynamic would be the best way forward for them. This arrangement was equally beneficial for Jasmine, who felt that a non-monogamous relationship would better fulfill her needs as a bisexual woman.

She opened up, “The Christian family that I come from, I never had the courage to step out on what I really wanted to do or desire. So with him, I was more comfortable to do things that I wanted.”

The next partner to enter into their relationship should be chosen by the women, not by Jerome.

The second wife, Deja, was introduced into their lives by Jasmine. Shortly after Deja’s arrival, Baby Jasmin joined the relationship. The dynamics expanded further when Tisha, who was incidentally Jerome’s ex-girlfriend before Big Jasmine, became a part of the family. She came into the group as their makeup artist but later became involved in their non-traditional lifestyle.

Now, they are preparing to welcome their fifth wife. They confess, “We don’t have a maximum limit of people in a relationship.”

The family is serious about choosing a new partner, each proposes a candidate, and by group decision, they choose the one who will go on a date with them. Jasmine explains, “It’s not as hard as it looks. We do everything together, so you always have to spend time with all of us.”

There is no jealousy in their relationship.

Women explain that they are not in a relationship only with Jerome, they are in a relationship with each other, so there is no room for jealousy. Jasmine adds, “We really don’t have jealousy and insecurity issues. We always uplift one another.”

Polyamory is also great when it comes to household chores, “One person might be cleaning the kitchen, one person might be cooking, one person might be doing the kids’ hair.” Tisha proves, “Before I met them, I was a single parent, and it was really hard on me. But after meeting them, and they met my son, it’s like 10 times better.” Jerome agrees, “We can all grow, we can grow within each other. We can gain more, we can prosper more within life.”

Once a week they hold an energy circle to sort out conflicts and tensions.

The family has also found a simple way to make each member feel heard. Once a week or as much as needed, they sit in a circle and discuss their feelings and everyone can share what’s bothering them. Jerome also asks the girls each time if they feel equal and loved, to make sure that everyone is happy.

Jasmine shares her thoughts, “I do feel like once you do polly with the right people, you would never want to go back to being monogamous.” Jerome adds, “When you actually take a chance and just understand that people can love differently. It really doesn’t matter what you have or how you have it. Love comes in all forms, shapes and sizes.”

Recently another couple proved that love don’t judge. A husband has being cruelly trolled on TikTok for being too ugly for his hot wife.

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