Holidays are meant to bring families closer together, but for Olivia, this Thanksgiving took a heartbreaking turn. Hoping to create a special moment for her grandchildren, she invited her son’s first wife to dinner. However, her decision enraged his new wife, leading to an explosive conflict that spiraled into a holiday nightmare. Distressed and seeking guidance, Olivia reached out to us for advice.
You live at your son AND daughter in laws house. You had no right to tell your daughter in law she was less family to you than his x wife. When she left was when it stopped being peaceful. Start looking for another place to live because she will throw you out and never speak to you again.
Yes you ruined it and you could do it at another location but no you have to do it your way
Olivia is toxic and manipulative, her actions were not genuine in anyway otherwise she wont have secretly invited the ex who seems ti have forgotten why she's the ex. Then to inform the current wife that the ex is more family than her what about all that says you wanted a peaceful or wonderful Thanksgiving? Her son has no spine and shouldn't have let his mother treat his wife in such a disrespectful manner. Your way of handling is not good either, coz no way I was leaving my house, everyone would know my displeasure in a very uncomfortable way.
You had no right at all to invite anyone ANYONE AT ALL TO SOMEONES HOUSE THAT WAS NOT YOURS!!! THIS WAS DISRESPECTFUL!!! If I was your daughter-in-law I wouod tell you you had 30 days to find a new place to live and if my son disagreed with me then I would be gone!!! Shame on you, you have some nerve!!!
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Hi Olivia! Thank you for sharing your story. We've prepared some tips that can help you navigate through this situation.
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Recognize that by inviting your son’s ex-wife without consulting his current wife, you unintentionally disrespected her position as the head of the household and a part of the family.
Apologize directly to her for saying, "She's more family than you are," and explain that your comment was driven by concern for the children, not an intent to dismiss her role. Reaffirm her importance in the family and commit to consulting her for future decisions.
Consulting before making a decision will, at least, save the harmony of the peaceful environment.
To avoid future conflicts, suggest organizing two separate celebrations for the children—one with their mother and another with their father and stepmother. This approach ensures the kids enjoy quality time with both parents without forcing everyone into a potentially volatile situation.
Emphasize that this solution is about the kids’ well-being and minimizing tensions, not about taking sides.
Since you live in your son’s house, recognize that the dynamics require extra care. Sit down with your son and his wife to define clear boundaries regarding household decisions, especially when it comes to family events.
Offer to abide by their rules as the homeowners, even if it means relinquishing some influence over the grandchildren’s celebrations. This shows respect for their home and authority.
Acknowledge that your daughter-in-law’s decision to call the police was extreme, but approach her calmly. Express how the incident deeply hurt and disrupted the family while focusing on how to move forward.
Suggest counseling for the family or even individual therapy for her if her feelings of being unwelcome persist. Make it clear that involving authorities unnecessarily is harmful to everyone, especially children.
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