In UK, at least where I work, as long as you call in sick as early as possible and fill in a firm when you get back you are fine, if its more long term if you have a Dr's you are fine, if you are geniunly ill you can't stop a person having off time off work, I was off twice last yr, once when I had a cough and pulled a muscle and second time a few wks later when a pulled another muscle and couldn't get off sofa for 2 days, when I got my wage slip it said I paid for those days offcand it most certainly wouldn't have prevented another person having time off if ill
I Refused to Sacrifice My Sick Days, and It Blew Up at Work

Many employees face challenges when strict sick day policies, HR pressure, and unfair pay practices collide with personal needs. Issues like burnout, toxic work culture, and lack of support reveal how fragile the balance between employee rights and workplace demands can be.
Jackie’s letter:
Hey Bright Side!
So, I work(ed) at a small marketing agency. Our sick day policy is super rigid, like once you’re out, that’s it. No wiggle room.
After a really tragic family loss, I had to use up all my sick days. When I finally came back, I expected at least a little sympathy... nope. Instead, my manager whispers to me, “HR needs to see you. Immediately.”
It turns out, one of my coworkers was pissed because she couldn’t take her sick day while I was already out. The others, already exhausted from covering, jumped on the bandwagon and complained that I was “disrupting the team.”
HR treated me like I’d committed a crime instead of, you know, grieving my family.
Then a few weeks later, I missed some weekend calls from my manager because I was absolutely drained. When payday rolled around, I found half my salary missing. They said it was because we lost a big client and my “absence/unavailability” contributed to it.
I just stared at my pay stub like... seriously??
That was my breaking point. Since I wasn’t paid for resting, I got my sweet revenge by sending the job ad to all the job-seeking groups on social media. Except, I added a little note saying they were “looking for employees they can underpay and punish for taking a break.”
The next morning, my manager’s phone was blowing up nonstop from confused applicants and recruiters dragging them.
He called me, furious, demanding I delete the posts or face “serious consequences.” I just laughed and told him not to worry about it, I wasn’t working there anymore. Honestly, after my posts, I doubt anyone else will want to either.
So Bright Side, was I being petty here or just standing up for myself? Would you have done the same?
Thank you in advance,
Jackie

PETTY FOR THE WIN!!!!! That was perfection with a twist. Isn't it amazing how fast the person with the LEAST Culpability is the one that is always blamed first.
Thanks so much for sharing your story with us, Jackie! It really takes courage to put something like that out there. We tried to gather some pieces of advice that might help give you perspective and maybe a little clarity moving forward. Hopefully, even just one of them makes things feel a bit lighter for you.
- Don’t let HR gaslight you — Listen, HR’s job isn’t to protect you, it’s to protect the company. So don’t waste energy trying to convince them to “understand” your situation. If something feels unfair, start keeping receipts: emails, texts, pay stubs. It’s not about being paranoid, it’s about having backup if they try to screw you over again.
- Don’t take company drama personally — Here’s the thing, your coworkers being mad at you for using your sick days wasn’t really about you. They were burnt out, frustrated, and took it out on the easiest target. Still not okay, but don’t carry that guilt. Their anger belonged to management, not you.
- Your work reputation isn’t the end of the world — We know HR made it feel like you had some black mark on your record, but trust us, once you’re out of there, nobody cares. Future jobs won’t know or care about this drama. Don’t carry their judgment into your next chapter.
Finding healthier workplaces and setting clearer boundaries can make a huge difference in long-term well-being. With the right support, it’s possible to rebuild confidence and create a more balanced, respectful work life.
Comments
Docking pay because they weren't able to hang onto a client without you? Unless you work on commission, that sounds like wage theft.
It seems bizarre thar your input was so important that the company lost a client solely by your lack of availability, and yet, they think nothing of losing your talents by stealing from your paycheck.
As I wrote that last paragraph, it occurred to me that there was a lot more yo the company losing that big client and they are just scapecoating you.
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