15 People Who Got a Bad Feeling and It Turned Out to Be True

Trying to juggle work and family is already stressful enough, but sometimes it’s not the situation; it’s the people who make it worse. One reader shared how taking a single day off spiraled into a clash they never saw coming. What should’ve been a private, personal choice suddenly turned into a test of loyalty at work, and the fallout was anything but ordinary.
So yesterday, I called off work because my mom wasn’t feeling well. She’s been having some weird symptoms, and I didn’t want to take any chances, so I took her to urgent care to get checked out. I figured it was the right thing to do; she’s my mom, she’s not well, and I had the PTO (paid time off).
Anyway, while I was in the waiting room, my boss texted me. Not to check on anything work-related. Not to ask if everything was okay. He just said, “I’m disappointed in you.”
Then he follows it up with, “You’re 29? That would make your parents in their 50s or early 60s. Tell them to get their own self to the doctor. Your parents aren’t old. Mine were in their 80s and didn’t bother me unless they were leaving in an ambulance.”
Like... what??
He was implying that I was being irresponsible or soft for choosing to be there for my mom. And I just snapped. I texted back, “You’re only disappointed because I do all the work and everyone else is lazy.”
Which, tbh, is true. I’ve been pulling the weight of three people in that office. I rarely complain, I show up, I stay late when needed, and when I finally take a day to take care of someone else, suddenly it’s the end of the world. He didn’t respond after that, but a coworker told me he said he would’ve fired me if I’d said that to his face.
Some managers love to guilt-trip employees for using PTO or setting boundaries, but you don’t have to just take it. Here are some real-world tips to handle a bad boss, protect yourself, and survive a toxic workplace.
At the end of the day, managers like this feed on guilt and manipulation, making employees feel guilty for living a life outside the office. Check out our examples of these kinds of bosses here.