My Husband Refused to Take Me to the Hospital, and It Almost Cost Us Our Baby

Trust is important in any relationship, and it’s especially important when it comes to health. If your family member happens to be a doctor, you fully rely on them. However, when your concerns are brushed off, trust starts to crumble. This is what our reader faced: her husband’s attitude towards her health nearly led to a heartbreaking outcome.

One of our readers got in touch with us recently.

We appreciate you getting in touch! We’re here to support you through this situation, and we’ve got some helpful tips that might come in handy.

Talk to your husband.

This situation is delicate, and both of you must ensure that there’s clear communication moving forward. He should apologize sincerely and commit to trusting your judgment in similar situations in the future. Whether or not you decide to stay in the relationship is ultimately your choice, but right now, rebuilding trust is important, especially since you’re still pregnant and need to minimize stress.

Seek a second opinion.

If you ever doubt the advice your husband gives about your health or feel like your concerns aren’t being heard, don’t hesitate to get a second opinion. It’s not about questioning his knowledge; it’s about making sure you feel confident and supported. Seeking advice from another doctor can give you peace of mind and ensure that you’re receiving the best possible care.

Listen to your body.

When you’re pregnant, you’re the one who knows your body best. So, if you’re experiencing any strange or persistent pains, it’s crucial to seek medical attention, no matter what anyone else, even a doctor, says. Your health and the well-being of your baby are what matter most. Don’t let anyone brush off your worries or minimize your symptoms. It’s important to speak up for yourself and your little one.

Do the research yourself.

It’s essential to know about pregnancy symptoms and potential issues, even if your husband is a medical pro. This knowledge empowers you to advocate for your health and ensure you receive the necessary care. You can explore books, articles, and reliable websites to learn more about pregnancy. Also, consider joining prenatal classes, either in person or online, offered by hospitals or community centers. It’s all about being informed and prepared for the journey ahead!

Marriages can be tricky, right? Sometimes unexpected things happen, and we’ve got to be ready for them. One reader recently shared a tough story about her wedding night. Instead of spending it together, her husband chose to hang out with his best friend.