I need to share my story because people I know are completely divided about it. Some say I am heartless, while others say they understand me. Honestly, I am confused about why so many think I am the villain here. Maybe you can tell me what you would have done in my place.
Hi Bright Side! My wife and I spent decades building a stable life. We worked hard, saved every dollar we could, and invested in property so we could leave behind something valuable for the next generation. I always pictured grandchildren running around our home and knew everything we built would one day go to them.
But that dream has been shattered.
Our only daughter is 35 now. She is single, and she has made it clear that she does not want to have children. I asked her to think again and stop being selfish. I also warned that she would lose her inheritance if she stayed childfree. She just smiled and walked away.
That moment broke me. I could not shake the feeling that my life’s work might simply end with me. For me, inheritance is more than just money. It is about passing down a family legacy and keeping our name alive through future generations.
Since my daughter does not want kids, I told her I plan to leave everything to my nephew, who already has a family. At least then, I know our hard-earned property and savings will continue to support our bloodline. And if she has no kids, no family, why would she even need so much money? She did not take it well.
She accused me of punishing her for choosing a childfree lifestyle. She said inheritance should be about love, not conditions or family expectations. We had a huge argument. She shouted that I cared more about imaginary grandkids than about her. I tried to explain that it is not about punishing her. I simply want to ensure everything I worked for does not die with me. But now she barely speaks to me.
And to make everything worse, and more permanent, I now received a legal letter saying that she is cutting all ties with me and doesn’t care for the inheritance. Is family now such a disposable thing? I understand that many modern women choose not to have children, and I respect my daughter’s decision. But is it really wrong to want to protect my family legacy? Is it so unfair to tie my inheritance to the hope of continuing our bloodline?
— Norman
If you were in Norman’s shoes, what would you do?
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The only one being selfish is you. So your daughter chooses to be childless. That's her decision not yours. Why should she get pregnant just because you want grandchildren? Frankly with your attitude and how you treated your daughter you don't deserve to be a grandmother. I'd cut you too.
You made that bed. I don't blame her at all. Having kids is not for everyone. She's not selfish wanting to live child free. Ur selfish for expecting her to have kids for the sake of an inheritance. U showed her exactly how much you care for her & respect her so u r getting exactly what u gave.
How do you know she hasn't tried to have kids and can't? Who do you think is going to take care of you when you need it? Bet your nephew won't. You will be a lonely old man with nothing leaving your money to a nephew who probably doesn't really give a damn about you. I would disown you too. Shame on you. No one is going to remember you except your daughter and you tarnished that legacy.
What a selfish ass of a person you are. You care more about imaginary grandchildren than your own daughter. This is her life not yours. Shame on you. When you start to live the life of a lonely old man remember it's your own fault.
Hate to break it to you but your nephews legacy is from his parents not you. You lost your daughter and wonder why. Go talk to your precious nephew. He's the one you picked. You better pray you don't need help or companionship in your old age
I bet your nephew doesn't give a real rats ass about you and I bet he won't be around to help or keep you company. You are reaping what you have sown. You deserve it. Hopefully your daughter never speaks to you again. I hope she has a wonderful life as she deserves. Hope you get exactly what you deserve. You don't deserve your daughter. Enjoy your nursing facility that your precious nephew puts you in. You're a genuine Ahole. Hopefully you can learn to live with your decisions and losing your daughter.. Hope it was all worth it to you Ahole.
