I Refused to Ruin My Honeymoon Because of a Family Emergency

3 months ago

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When we get married, we vow to stay together through life's ups and downs. However, when tragedy struck right after their wedding, Suzy and her husband found themselves on different paths. Following a car crash involving his parents, Suzy's husband wanted to stay by their side, while she insisted on going on their dream honeymoon, believing it couldn't be postponed. Things took a devastating turn, and Suzy wrote to us for advice.

This is Suzy’s letter:

I'm not even gonna go there with an answer but I do have 2 words "HEARTLESS B***H "

( I apologize everyone my jaw dropped 😞 )

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Deborah Mylott McKinnon

Wrong Suzy. Marriage is a partnership...you have to be able to negotiate.

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unbelievable.If he had gone on his "honeymoon"it would have just been horrendous.they would have been fighting every day.but yes I think your marriage actually never started.had it been me I wouldn't have hesitated to do the right thing and stay close to his injured parents.You can book another trip -you could never replace his parents.

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Nope, u dont deserve this crepp, get it annulled poste haste.

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Run, don't walk to the nearest divorce attorney....my advice to your husband.

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You should have found divorce papers waiting for you. You were wrong to leave.

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You're both wrong. You should have stayed behind to help with his folks. They were part of your family. He should have been more committed to your marriage so that the first bump didn't push him into another woman's arms.

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Sharing a coffee in the hospital cafeteria does not mean he is having an affair.

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If he isn't smart enough to get rid of your self centered narcissistic a** then I truly hope the day comes that you are in a horrible wreck layed up in the hospital and he takes Anne to Europe instead of being by your side.

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👏💯

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Woman, he should annul the union. You obviously don't understand family importance.

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Nina Von Gunten

When planning an expensive trip, especially overseas, always take out travel insurance in case an emergency should occur so that you don't lose any money on your prepaid trip.

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Cathleen Keller

I hope your husband caught up with the mailman before the
PASTOR had time to mail your marriage license. Your photo should be in a dictionary next to the definition of SELFISH B****H

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WOW!!! I hope your husband files for a divorce or a annulment!!!

You’re extremely selfish, insensitive, narcissistic, and the list goes on!!

You choose to go on a HONEYMOON alone instead of being emotionally there for your husband and his parents that were in a life threatening car accident! Add materialistic to the list I made above!!!

He needed you and you chose your precious trip, and then you have the nerve to get upset over a female friend being there emotionally for him and his parents?! 😂
Your ENTITLEMENT is showing through big time!!!!

Hopefully your innocent husband just divorces you and then nails you with a hefty bill/fine for your ABANDONMENT of him in his time of need!!!!

You know when friends joke around and say you are going to make some man miserable, you must of taken that to heart and decided to make your husband miserable!!

If a woman did that to my son and I was the one in a accident and in the hospital, you don’t want to know what I would do! But I would make you pay!!

WOW!

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3 months ago

Something crazy happened here... Sorry, it's a secret.

Thanks for sharing your story with us, Suzy.

We’ve compiled some tips that we hope will assist you in navigating this sensitive situation.

Open honest communication.

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Brenda Barnes-Kilmury

I’m convinced your extremely selfish

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Sit down with your husband and have an open, honest conversation about both of your feelings. Acknowledge his need to be with his family during their crisis, but also express how hurt and isolated you felt being on the honeymoon alone. Try to understand his perspective and share your own without accusations.

This dialogue can help both of you understand each other’s actions and feelings, and work towards a resolution.

Seek counseling together.

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Seek divorce. Suzy went full woman.

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Given the intense emotions and misunderstandings, it might be beneficial to seek couple’s therapy. A professional can help mediate your discussions, ensuring both sides are heard and understood.

Therapy can provide a safe space to explore deeper issues, such as differing views on family obligations and priorities, and work on strategies to strengthen your relationship moving forward.

Reflect on priorities and compromises.

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Take some time to reflect on your own priorities and the importance of the honeymoon versus the family emergency. Consider whether there were alternative compromises, such as postponing the honeymoon for a short period to support his family first.

Reflecting on these aspects can help you approach future conflicts with a more balanced perspective and find middle ground in similar situations.

Rebuild trust and connection.

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Yeah, rebuild trust with the wahmen who doesn't gaf about your family.

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Work on rebuilding trust and connection with your husband by planning quality time together. Since the honeymoon didn’t go as planned, perhaps consider a smaller, more intimate trip or activities that both of you enjoy.

Focus on creating positive experiences and memories to rebuild the bond that might have been strained. Showing support and willingness to reconnect can demonstrate your commitment to the marriage and help mend the rift caused by the recent events.

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Paula Maupin Wynn

SERIOUSLY??? Now HONESTLY ask yourself, would you have still gone if it had been YOUR parents? This is why you pay a little extra for trip insurance. From your husband's perspective, you aren't very reliable in an emergency. Let's hope they don't have a family vacation planned and you get hurt or go into labor a month early. You might just be in the hospital ALL ALONE!!!

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Your soon to be ex-husband needs to see a lawyer as soon as possible. I could not go through life with someone so selfish and heartless. You need a reality check asap

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Divorce this uncaring girl.

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Had he gone on the honeymoon, and 1 or both of his parents died. He wood have blamed himself 4 not staying. U, 4 not being their 4 family.

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My in-laws absolutely hated me but I still wouldn't have hesitated to cancel the trip and stay with my Husband.
It's the way normal humans behave.

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