My Husband Passed Away Years Ago, Then He Walked Through the Door
We’ve all heard our fair share of ghost stories, especially as kids. But, while these stories offer spooky endings and moral themes, other ones give you a glimpse into something a bit more real. In this story, a woman shares her experience of seeing her deceased husband, only to find a darker truth.
I was washing the dishes and thought my daughter was back home.
It was a quiet evening, just me in the kitchen doing dishes, when I heard the front door open. I thought it was Penny, just coming back from soccer practice. So, I called out, “Hey Penny! How was practice?” But instead of her voice, I heard footsteps getting closer to the kitchen. I figured she was rushing in, but when I turned around, it wasn’t Penny.
I thought I was looking at a ghost.
It was my deceased husband. I hadn’t seen him in five years, not since he died. He was standing there, looking older, like five years had passed for him too. He was looking at me like he was scared, and he just said, “I didn’t know where else to go.” I couldn’t move. I honestly thought I was seeing things.
He completely betrayed me.
I reached out, touched his arm, and, yeah, he was real. It felt like nothing had changed. I asked him “How? Why would you do this to us?” I couldn’t believe it. He started telling me his story. Apparently, after he left, he found some woman online. She was everything he thought he wanted. He left us, moved far away to be with her. Turns out, she wasn’t real. He’d been catfished. Lost money, everything.
He thought he could come back to his old life again.
He didn’t know what else to do, so he tried to start over. Menial jobs, just scraping by. After all that time, he realized he couldn’t keep running. He wanted to come back, to see me and Penny again, but he never thought I’d even talk to him. I was just speechless. What do I do now?
Processing the shock.
Thank you for sharing your story with us. First, take a deep breath. This is an overwhelming situation, and it’s completely normal to feel a whirlwind of emotions, anger, confusion, betrayal, even disbelief. Your husband’s sudden reappearance after five years, especially under these circumstances, is a lot to process. You don’t have to figure everything out right away.
Unpacking the situation.
Hearing his side of the story might’ve answered some questions, but it likely left you with even more. The fact that he abandoned your family for a catfishing scam is heartbreaking, and his decision to stay away for years instead of facing the consequences adds another layer of pain. What he did was selfish, and you don’t owe him immediate forgiveness, or any forgiveness at all.
Think of you and your daughter’s wellbeing.
Before making any decisions, take time to reflect. Do you want to hear more from him? Are you open to rebuilding trust, or is this something you can’t move past? There’s no right or wrong answer here. If you’re unsure, talking to a therapist or a trusted friend could help sort through your feelings. And don’t forget about your daughter, this will affect her deeply, too.
You’re likely leaning on closing the chapter for good. His betrayal was too much to bear for any person. Finding trust in new relationships can be difficult, proving you need to be careful with who you let into your life. Just look at these heartbreaking betrayal stories.
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