l instantly just ask for the menu so l can decide for myself, l tell the server l don't want to hear about any specials or desserts as l haven't even opened the menu yet. l also let them know l appreciate they have a job to do But l have OCD and as such l'm incredibly uncomfortable when people go at their pace instead of just letting me go at my pace. l then just tell them l'll let them know when l'm ready to order! if they still try to push, l will either walk out or let them know their tip will be reduced!
if they still try to push, l will either walk out or let them know their tip will be reduced!