Why Mayim Bialik Doesn’t Want Her Kids to Say ’Please’ and ’Thank You,’ And 7 Other Parenting Rules From Her

Family & kids
9 months ago

Mayim Bialik is famous for playing the brilliant person on The Big Bang Theory, but she can do many different things. She’s not only an actress and a brain scientist but also a great mom to two kids. Bialik has modern and unique ideas about being a parent, and her thoughts are definitely worth thinking about.

1. Her kids were breastfed for a long time.

Mayim Bialik also liked the idea of breastfeeding her kids even when they were bigger. While many moms stop nursing quickly, Bialik lets her boys choose when to stop. Because of breastfeeding, her kids had fewer fits and felt really close to their mom.

2. She helped her children learn to use the toilet without using diapers.

Most parents use diapers, but Mayim Bialik chose a different path. She didn’t use diapers for her children. Instead, she went with a method called diaperless potty training. This method believes that babies show signs when they need to go, and once you understand those signs, you can hold them over a potty and use a signal like a sound to help them go.

3. She teaches her kids at home instead of sending them to school.

Mayim Bialik doesn’t like the usual way kids learn in school. That’s why she’s choosing to teach her kids at home. She believes this helps her boys grow in their own special way and lets them follow what they love. It’s all about using their imagination and having fun while they learn.

4. Saying “please” and “thank you” are not encouraged.

While many kids learn to say “please” and “thank you” when they’re really young, Bialik chose a different way. She taught her children not to use those words. She even talked to her friends and family, telling them not to expect those responses from her boys. She thinks that real, sincere ways of showing thanks and appreciation matter more than just saying those words because, over time, they can lose their real feeling.

5. She doesn’t buy expensive Christmas gifts.

Every year, her boys get gifts for Christmas. It’s okay if they get presents from their grandparents, but she doesn’t do the same. Instead, Bialik and her ex-husband pick one toy or give them things like socks and pajamas if they need them.

She does this because her kids already have everything they need, but many others don’t have enough. She would rather give money to help people who don’t have much instead of spending it on fancy presents.

6. She believes in using positive ways to guide behavior.

Mayim Bialik believes in using positive discipline and talking openly with her children. She doesn’t shout, hit, or punish when things go wrong. Instead, she talks calmly to her boys, using reasons they can understand.

Her main idea is treating your kids how you want to be treated and having a good relationship built on respect. This way, your children won’t be scared of you and learn how to control themselves.

7. She encourages bed-sharing.

Bed-sharing is vital in attachment parenting, like carrying your baby during the day. Since attachment parenting is all about being really close to your child, it makes sense why Mayim Bialik decided to share her bed with her boys. She says that sharing the bed helps them become even closer, stops them from being too anxious when apart, and lets them sleep more and better.

8. Her children have limited use of electronic devices.

Even though Mayim Bialik is a famous TV actor, her kids don’t watch her on TV. That’s because there are special rules about technology in their home. Her children can’t watch movies or TV because she doesn’t want them to be changed by what they see or feel pressured by it. In fact, the first video her son saw was about a baby being born at home. This helped him understand when his brother was born, and he even helped with cutting the cord.

In this article, Mayim Bialik shared her unique approach to preparing her 3-year-old son for the experience of watching her give birth. She explained the thoughtful steps she took to ensure he understood and felt comfortable with the process.

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