12 Stories That Showed Us Why We Need to Master the Art of Saying "No"

It’s great to do a good deed. For example, giving up your seat on a bus to an elderly person, if you are young and healthy. But many people take kindness for weakness and start to be insolent. And this is where it is important not to let the offenders off the hook.

• I was once traveling on a jam-packed bus. An elderly woman got on at a stop. One girl, seeing this, gave up her seat and stood next to her. I looked at this and smiled quietly to myself.
  It’s packed, we all shake when the bus makes a turn. Suddenly I hear a profanity from that elderly woman who was given a seat. She was shouting at that girl because that one touched her with her body a few times. The insults were stopped with the words, “Swap back if you feel so bad.” © Pravidnik / Pikabu
• Once I was traveling on a night train. I entered the compartment, and a child of about 10 years old was sleeping on my bottom bunk. And his mother and grandmother ask me to take the top bunk. Okay, so I start to make the bed and put things away.
  And then these 2 start shushing at me, saying, why the hell I’m that loud, I might wake up the child. I had to say loudly and clearly that either they let me finish what I’m doing, or the child will have to move to his rightful place. © KusachaMuchacha / Pikabu
• On my first day at work, a colleague baked strawberry biscuits and was giving everyone the treat. I didn’t want to eat the biscuits. So when it was my turn, I couldn’t think of anything better to say than, “Oh, I’m allergic to strawberries.”
  Suddenly, out of the blue, my colleague threw them all out! The whole tray of biscuits went straight into the bin. And told everyone not to bring strawberries to the office. So, I’ve been pretending that I’m allergic to strawberries for 3 years.

• A friend tearfully asked me to lend her some cash for a couple of days. She was so worried that I agreed to withdraw money from my credit card. And there’s a fee and daily commission. We go to the ATM, I withdraw the money, give it to her.
  She puts it in her wallet, and suddenly I see the same credit card as mine there. In complete bewilderment, I ask her why she didn’t withdraw money from her own credit card. And she replied, “Why would I do that? There’s a withdrawal fee and commission.” © Maria Kat

• The friends’ kid is 6 years old. He runs into my living room and starts jumping on the sofa. I told his mom to stop it. And she replied, “No matter how many times you tell him, he doesn’t listen. Difficult character.”
  I wasn’t happy with this answer, so I called the boy and quietly said, “If you run on the sofa, I’ll kick...” Well, the boy realized the threat and didn’t jump on the sofa for the remaining 5 hours, while they were at our place. It turns out that he listens. © navigator48 / Pikabu
• My boss was like, “Do you want to stay extra tonight?” So I said yeah, and then a different boss said, “Do you want to cover the morning shift too?” So I said yes, and then I was asked if I wanted to cover the evening shift as well, so I said yes.
  And this is how I was once a bartender for 34 hours straight. © lukhgsdkhgdkhgdkhgdkgh / Reddit

• There are these interesting people who don’t want to overpay for comfort and convenience, but they are eager to swap. They also take offense if they get a refusal. I always take an aisle seat, 12C or 11C. I just like it.
  And every time I hear the same thing, “Oh, could we swap our seats? I want to sit next to my mom-son-friend.” And they have the eyes like those of the cat from Shrek.
  No. I pay extra money for my comfort when I buy a ticket. Why don’t these “cats” think about their comfort right away?! © Krasopetochka777 / Pikabu
• I once sang for 2 hours in a crowded restaurant while my friend accompanied me on guitar. She literally begged me to work with her. I was hoping that at rehearsal she would hear how terrible I was singing and back off.
  But no. The look on the guests’ faces (something between sympathy and shock) will haunt me forever.

• When I first moved to Italy, I met a compatriot. This poor woman came to her fiancé with her daughter, and the fiancé left her! She’s broke. I talked to my husband and invited them to live with us temporarily.
  She tried to hit on my husband, but I thought my eyes deceived me, I thought it was just me. The woman asked if she could leave her daughter with us so she could find a job. I stupidly agreed.
  The next day, I get a call from my boss. He says that if I send people to look for work in our firm, I have to warn him. Anyway, while I was looking after her child, she tried to get a job at my company pretending to be my childhood friend. Thanks for the lesson, I’ve been more careful after that. © Olga Belkina

• My aunt is getting divorced from her douchebag husband of 15 years. She still does his laundry because she can’t say no. The divorce has been in progress for about 8 months. No idea how she manages to actually be the one to initiate a divorce, but can’t tell him to back off about his stained tighty whiteys. © white-dog-***s / Reddit
• There were complaints about a colleague, and my superiors sent me to check on him. I turn up at his department and he’s bought an expensive cake. I say, “No, thanks, I can’t have that much sugar.” “But you can have one slice, right?” “No,” I reply, “I’m diabetic.”
  “Oh, but your doctor won’t know...” Another colleague explains, “Cake will make him sick.” The guy wouldn’t stop, “How about a pie? Chocolate croissants?”
  Turns out, this dude knew I was overweight and decided to bribe me with cake. We ended up firing him. © punkwa*** / Reddit

• My father had many brothers and sisters, so there is a lot of distant kin. We live in Canada, and the extended family is in Europe. And every time someone flies to Canada on holiday, they head to my parents’ house!
  My parents pick them up from the airport 2 hours away, let them stay in their place for a month, feed them and give them tours. And then the guest goes back home. It’s so infuriating! But the parents can’t say no. © 10S_NE1 / Reddit

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