I Always Ask Men to Show Me Their Bank Balance on the First Date, Here’s Why
Sofia Franklin, 31, doesn’t deny that she’s got money on her mind. The woman revealed in a viral TikTok video that she “only wants to date a wealthy guy”, and she always asks for men’s bank statements on the first date before she moves on further. Some people were quick to judge the young woman, but the reasoning behind Sofia’s dating approach sounded very sensible to many.
Sofia made quite a stir with her revelation.
Podcaster Sofia Franklyn said she “only wants to date a wealthy guy.” The woman explained that she will ask for men’s bank statements info during the first date before she will consider moving on to the next stage of the relationship.
“I’m not joking. I’ve asked the last three dudes I’ve dated for their bank account info on the first date,” Sofia admitted.
Her podcast guest commented on the woman’s revelation, saying, “I don’t judge people’s actions. I look at the intention behind it. So, like, why do you ask for that?”
The young woman has a robust reason for her dating hack.
Sofia sincerely explained why she chose such an approach. She said, “I have a job. I’m very successful. So I think I have every right to be like, ’Hi, are we on the same level, or am I wasting my time?’” The woman said she wants to know the bank account details “especially if they’re under 5ft 10.”
“I do that and, if they don’t show me, I’ll still go on like a second, third date, but I need to know at a certain point. A lot of people think that’s just crazy of me to do, I don’t think it’s that crazy.”
The woman also uploaded a clip of her latest interview on TikTok with the caption, “I think I’m just being efficient?”
People literally burst with reactions to Sofia’s revelation.
Her clip, with 1,000,000 views, got many people wondering about her motives. “You have tons of money, why does it matter what he makes?” one user said.
“What if, in the eyes of the rich guy, you’re the struggling one that barely meets his expectations?” commented another person.
“Once you stop looking outside of YOURSELF for love, fulfillment, wealth, success ... You will realize it doesn’t matter WHAT that person,” another watcher added.
However, others supported Sofia’s method for finding her ideal man. “Absolutely 300% agree! You deserve to have a man on the same level as you!” wrote one person. “Yes, this is a must!!”
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