In a moving letter to our editorial team, Jessica, 34, shares a deeply personal experience that many will find both eye-opening and heartbreaking. After the loss of a loved one, she thought her boss understood the gravity of her grief and would offer the support she desperately needed. However, what followed shook her to the core and became living proof that the woman was unlucky to have a really toxic workplace environment.
We invite you to dive into Jessica’s powerful and shocking story. Her journey of navigating loss and unexpected behavior from her workplace may leave you questioning what truly constitutes respect in the face of personal tragedy. Read on to discover the full story.
Jessica, 34, reached out to us with a story that not only shocked us but also left us questioning the boundaries of professional empathy and respect. Her letter, filled with raw emotion, recounted the heartbreaking and eye-opening experience of a toxic workplace that shook her belief in both her boss and her career.
“Hi, Bright Side! I’m a middle-chain manager in a small law firm. I’m a very diligent employee, and I work not only for my salary but because I truly enjoy being a part of the firm. I’ve always believed in contributing to its prosperity and growth with my hard work. But after recent events and my boss’s toxic behavior, I’ve lost faith in people completely. I don’t even know if I should continue with this company anymore.”
Jessica’s words were just the beginning of a story that would unravel with shocking details.
It all began with a devastating personal loss. Jessica’s grandma, whom she had been very close to, passed away unexpectedly. The grief was overwhelming, and she took some time off to mourn and handle the necessary arrangements. During this period, she was hoping for a little understanding and compassion from her boss—a reasonable request, given the circumstances.
But instead of the support she was counting on, Jessica was met with an appalling display of insensitivity from her boss, whom she had always regarded as someone she could trust.
Jessica wrote, “I took several days off to care for my sick grandma. My boss seemed fine with it, even approved my funeral leave and offered his ‘genuine’ condolences. I was relieved. Then, during the service, my neighbor suddenly called, whispering anxiously that some man was at my door, and this was the moment when I revealed how rude a person can be.”
Jessica gives some background to her story, saying, " After all the hard work I’ve put in for this company, it felt like the least my boss could do—let me take some time for my family without making me feel guilty. I thought maybe, just maybe, he understood that sometimes, family comes first.“
Jessica added, “I couldn’t believe she was gone. I knew it was coming, but nothing could prepare me for the depth of the pain I felt.” The woman’s grief was profound, but the least she could have expected was that her boss would add even more negativity to her really bad times.
The woman wrote, "So, during my grandma’s funeral, my neighbor suddenly called, whispering anxiously that some man was at my door, knocking and peeking through my windows. My neighbor confronted him, and it turned out to be my boss. He said he was “worried because I didn’t pick up”, so he decided to stop by to “make sure I was okay.”
Jessica said, “When my neighbor explained I was at my grandmother’s funeral, my boss finally relaxed and apologized for the commotion. He mumbled something about ‘just needing to check,’ then left without making a further scene.
I only learned about all this after the service was over. Though I was glad my boss left once he heard I really was at Grandma’s funeral, it still felt like a total invasion of privacy. It made me question his trust in me. I’d been honest with him every step of the way, and he’d shown no sign of doubting my reasons for taking time off—yet on the day I laid my grandma to rest, he was snooping around my house to confirm my story.”
The woman wrote, “I’m still trying to process the mix of grief and shock. Part of me appreciates that he approved the time off without a fight, but another part of me can’t shake how unsettling it is that he had to see for himself whether I was telling the truth.
Now I’m left wondering: can I really trust someone who’d rather do a surprise check on my empty home than simply believe me? What should I do?”
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Sounds like a comunication issue more than anything...
“worried because I didn’t pick up”, so he decided to stop by to “make sure I was okay.”
Did you check in on a regular basis to let them know what was going on or did you just take leave and not call in?
