I'm all for wearing what you enjoy. But, imo, a party for your teenage daughter is not the place for a crop top. Sorry ;). Just wear a blouse, nice Tshirt instead.
I'm in my mid 60s and didn't start wearing leggings until two years ago.. love them. I'm a sz LG and still wear longer blouses
My Family Refuses to Go Out With Me Because My Clothes Are "Too Young" for My Age
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Stay true to your style.
If jeans, sneakers, and oversized clothes make you happy and confident, don’t feel pressured to change just to fit someone else’s idea of what’s appropriate. Your personal style is your identity and a reflection of how you feel most comfortable in your own skin. Dressing in a way that resonates with you is a form of self-expression, and you shouldn’t have to give that up to please others.
Try finding a middle ground.
If there are certain events (like your daughter's birthday) where compromise feels necessary, try incorporating elements of your style into a more "event-appropriate" outfit. For example, pair a tailored blazer with your favorite sneakers, or balance a bold piece with something more neutral. This way, you stay true to yourself and respect the occasion.
Make it clear it's not about them.
If your daughter or family refuses to go out with you, calmly say, "I understand you don’t like my style, but it shouldn’t stop us from spending time together. My clothes don’t define our relationship, let's focus on the time we share rather than what I’m wearing." Remind them that relationships are about connection, not appearances.
Use humor to diffuse tension.
The next time someone comments, respond with a joke like, "I guess I’m just too cool for my age!" Humor can make the conversation less heated and help shift the focus away from criticism. It also shows that you’re confident in your choices and not easily shaken by negative remarks. Adding a playful smile or laugh can defuse tension.
Friendships can get tricky when boundaries are crossed and assumptions take over. In this article, during a visit, our reader’s friend accused his girlfriend of dressing “too revealing” and even suggested she did it on purpose.
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