My Son-in-Law Tried to Cut Me Out — I Taught Him a Lesson He Won’t Forget

How long should parents keep footing the bill for their kids? Is there really a right moment to cut the cord? It’s a tricky question, one that many parents quietly wrestle with.
Take Matthew, the author of today’s story: one day, he simply decided to stop supporting his sons financially and leave them to fend for themselves. But what happened next was something he never saw coming.
Hi Bright Side,
My name is Matthew, and I’m writing about a very delicate parenting matter. When my kids hit adulthood, they never stopped asking for money: tuition, rent, other expenses. When my son asked for a car for his birthday, I refused.
I told him, “I’m sick of being your free ATM. Stop relying on me.” But to my shock, my son said, “You’ll regret it.” The next morning, I went to his room, but he wasn’t there. I opened his closet, and there were no clothes—he had left.
Now, I have no idea where he is, and I can’t help but wonder—was I wrong to do this? How can I fix this?
Matthew
Thanks for sharing your experience with us. That’s a very tough situation, especially when it comes to managing your kids’ finances and setting boundaries. We understand how challenging it can be, which is why we’ve put together a few tips that might help you cope with this.
In the end, money fights in families are rarely just about finances—they’re about love, loyalty, and what it truly means to stand by each other. Boundaries matter, but so does respect, and finding the balance is what ultimately defines a family. Check out this similar story here.