Yes he was wrong you always put family first by all means your wife/did he sleep in the dog house if you don't have one you need to get one to remind him even if you do not have a dog
I Skipped My Wife’s Birthday to Attend My Best Friend’s Wedding — Now I Regret It
Life often presents us with difficult decisions that result in significant outcomes. Henry encountered such a predicament when his spouse’s birthday celebration clashed with his closest friend’s nuptials. Choosing to go to the wedding led to unforeseen developments for Henry, motivating him to connect and narrate his experience to us.
He DID put family first. His brother won't divorce him but if his wife does, maybe he'll find someone less self-centered next time.
No, he was not wrong. The wife is immature and you do NOT always put family first if the request is childish. Possibly she may leave him one day and he would be better off without a petulant child-wife.
I don't think he was wrong
Yes, you were wrong!
I would have never married that women
If this were me, I would be questioning my decision to marry this woman in the first place.
No, tienes razón, habrá muchos cumpleaños más. Es increíble la manera de actuar de tu esposa, so selfish, piensa si quieres seguir a su lado porque esto es una pequeña muestra de su carácter retorcido.
We appreciate you sharing your experience, Henry! Here are some suggestions that might assist you in this scenario.
Foster open communication and work towards reconciliation.
Have a candid discussion with your wife about the circumstances and emotions that contributed to this disagreement. Show that you recognize her frustration and share your viewpoint in a composed manner. Appreciate her hard work in organizing the celebration and acknowledge the significance of the day for her.
Organize a special makeup event.
Plan an exclusive occasion for the two of you to compensate for missing her birthday. Consider a romantic trip or an elegant dinner, something that clearly shows your appreciation and love for her.
Use this opportunity to craft a memorable experience for your wife, demonstrating that although you couldn’t be present on the day, her happiness remains a top priority.
Consider seeking mediation or counseling.
If this disagreement has significantly affected your relationship, think about consulting a mediator or a couples’ therapist. This can offer a neutral environment to express your emotions and address the pain caused by the event. It will demonstrate to your wife that you are dedicated to resolving the conflict and strengthening your relationship.
Take time to reflect and offer an apology.
Spend some time reflecting on the situation and your decision. Even if you feel attending the wedding was justified, consider apologizing for the impact your choice had on her. Recognize that birthdays carry emotional significance. Apologizing doesn’t mean you were wrong, but it shows that you care about her feelings.
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