I Stopped Picking Up Job Calls on Weekends—Now HR Is Rethinking Their Policy

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4 days ago

Finding a balance between remote and office-based work is challenging, as both options have their drawbacks. One of our readers, Lisa, preferred to work from home, but when her request was granted, not all of her colleagues were happy.

Lisa’s story:

Dear Bright Side,

I’ve been an accountant for two months at my new workplace. I asked my managers to work from home, so I could stay with my dog, who can get anxious if he feels lonely, but they refused my request. I was a bit disappointed, but I understand that they needed everyone at the office.

Until I started receiving work-related calls on weekends, when they asked me a few things urgently. I did it for the first two occasions, but on the third time, I refused and told my manager, “Sorry, but I’m not allowed to work from home.”

The next day, all coworkers received the same message, which stated, “You are fired from office duties.” However, it went on to explain that the company was moving to remote work, and the office hours will be more flexible, also meaning working in the evenings and occasionally at the weekends.

It was a shock for everyone, as this decision came out of the blue for most of my colleagues. Some of them are complaining about remote work and planning to push for a return to the office. Others have even blamed me for the shift, as they knew that I was complaining about the lack of a home office.

I didn’t want it this way, though. I just wanted to have the option of working from home, and not make it compulsory for everyone. Was I wrong to ask to work from home to balance the workload?

Thank you, Lisa, for sharing your story with us. Sounds like a drastic step from your company, but surely you were not the only reason behind their decision. More and more companies are choosing hybrid or remote work models that can benefit both the employers and the employees.

Benefits of working from home

I loved your reply to weekend work. If I'm not allowed to work from home then don't call me at home and ask me to work. Their reaction was way over the top tho.

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Lol I'm all for WFH, but only 2 months at work and you ask for WFH when everyone else is in office? And just so you can dog sit?

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2 days ago
This comment came alive and ran away.

SMFH, asking to work from home and listing your neurotic dog as a reason is beyond asinine. Should be fired just for asking.

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Well I don't mind most of your comment tho I don't agree with the comment in it but put the dog " DOWN " %$^#^%$#

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All the people saying this dude is wrong for lack of better words are wrong themselves. If you got the job knowing you work in office and are trying to say youre dog is the reason you need to work from home. Especially if youre saying you can't leave them alone for more than 2 or 3 hours either quit or put the dog down best way to keep him from getting anxious and you keeping the job that keeps a roof over your head

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2 days ago
This comment is beautiful but so out of place.
2 days ago
This comment is in the X-files.

When you consider your dog more important than your job you have a mental illness. You do not have the mental capacity to actually have a job. You need to be in a mental institution with equal idiots like men who wear women's clothes and think that it's normal. I would suggest some sort of mental treatment but the only thing available for treatment nowadays is these people called therapists. The reality of the title therapist is an individual who mind rapes any individual in their control. Therapy has forced mental illness upon society in the United States of America. Bring back mental institutions immediately and you could actually go and bring your dog with you!

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Yeah, go to a mental institution where a therapist has full control over you. You have no idea what you're talking about, clearly.

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2 days ago
This comment is too shy. It's hiding.
3 days ago
The comment didn't pass the sanity test.

Could you tell us your qualifications as a psychiatrist, so that we can more accurately assess your rage, please Donald?

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2 days ago
This comment was eaten by a raccoon.
3 days ago
Something crazy happened here... Sorry, it's a secret.

Sounds like you need some therapy yourself Donald. Whatever the reason for wanting to work from home it's still a valid request. Especially for someone like an accountant whose presence doesn't need to actually be in the office. Wow! Practice your drama much?

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Patty, your comment is awesome. You're not trying to change the job or the world. A small adjustment doesn't change the job much nor the entire world. L. Owens gets it!!

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3 days ago
The comment was arrested by the vice squad.
3 days ago
The comment was deleted. Go home guys.
3 days ago
This comment was too good to show it to everyone.

Pet parents totally understand and I'm a Gen X whose worked remotely since 2010. I refuse to leave my dogs alone for more than 2 - 3 hours. I also know that taking my rescued dogs to Doggy Day Camp would be traumatizing for them. I couldn't bear the pain of them fearing that I too abandoned them.

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2 days ago
The comment has been disarmed.
3 days ago
Shhh! The comment is asleep.

I rather spend my days with my dog. He's more human than these poor excuses of creatures that think you need mental help. I'm sure that they can't get dates or keep a pet from running away. Jealous much.

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Donald, your assessment of her is harsh and demeaning. You obviously have issues with therapy, which is too bad, and has nothing to do with her post. I feel sorry for you.

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Y’all act like animals aren’t important. That’s why every day people treat animals and insects like they aren’t worthy of anything. A therapist wouldn’t call this crazy but being responsible for a pet you have.

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2 days ago
We took this comment away to our comment museum.
3 days ago
A cat is having a nap right on this comment.

I'm gunna guess older Gen right? I would like a map to get the what ever world you think your in because the one I'm in must not be real...the one I'm in lets people be people and if they feel more comfortable working with their behaved dog then the grown child so be it.

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3 days ago
Ain't nobody got time for that.
3 days ago
You can't hide three things: the Sun, the Moon and the truth. But you sure can hide a comment.

Sherry, are you sure you and Donald don't know each other? Because it frightens me that two people would think the same thoughts both without any concern for how a person feels or for you even knowing what you're talking about

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3 days ago
This comment was too dangerous for society.

This is a way to have you work for free. Unless you clock in clock out you will work for free at home.
Dad said NEVER bring work home.

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I think it's great you have the opportunity to work from home! No office politics. No fighting for the boss' favorite. No time crunch. Less stress. No long drive to work and home. No traffic. You save money on gas. Hallelujah. You win all around. And an afternoon noon nap too! 😴 You win!

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  • No commuting: You don’t have to spend hours travelling to and from your workplace, which also means you can start and finish work earlier.
  • Better work-life balance: As you spend more time at home, you can pay more attention to your family. Without commuting, after finishing work, you’ll have more free time as well, which is a huge benefit.
  • More comfortable work environment: You can forget about the fight for the best table at the office, and you can also switch on/off the air conditioning as you wish. What’s more, you can wear whatever you want, no need for suits and skirts, just don’t forget to change your PJs when you are on a video call.

Disadvantages of home office

  • More distractions: Working from home is fine until you live alone. But if you share your home with your friends, family, and pets, you can get distracted easily. Try to create your own working space where no one can disturb you, and ask everyone to leave you in peace when you’re working.
  • Limited communication: Great technical tools, like video calls, messaging, and email systems, can help in communicating with your colleagues. But they can’t replace an in-life coffee break, or private meetings when you can discuss everything.
  • Loneliness: Without meeting people, working from home can get very monotonous, and people can get lonely. Working in a team can get more difficult; so, ideally, you can meet your colleagues once in a while to break the usual work-from-home circle.

And what do you think? Do you prefer working from home or at the office? Feel free to share your view with us. And if you’d like to read more about working from home, read our I’ve Been Working From Home for 3 Years, and Here Are 8 Big Mistakes I Wish I Had Avoided article.

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At my place of work we have in office and work from home employed. I can tell you work from home generally performs much worse. About 10% of our work from home employees have from medium to great work ethic. Our workers in office are closer to 80%. I do a lot with metrics. I wish I could do a lot more with letting poor performance workers go. They often lack responsibility with their home life and need to grow up.

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Since April, I've been searching for an entry level Remote customer service or admin position. Any suggestions on making my search a successful one would be great.

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No one owes you a cushy job where you can nap and do house chores while making free money

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