My Husband Ditched Me After Our Wedding And Partied With His Friends

Relationships
2 months ago

Sometimes, the fairytale after weddings vanishes, and carriages turn into pumpkins. Our reader thought she’d share a special moment with her husband after the grand ceremony. However, he ran away and hung out with his friends instead.

Our reader shared a story with us.

Anulle the marriage. He and his friends are A-holes
He does not care for you or anything. Leaving on the wedding evening/night to have a party with his friends ? nope, red flags all over this...

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Thank you for getting in touch with us! We’re sorry to hear about what you’re going through, and we’re here to offer some tips that could help you handle the situation.

Reconsider your relationship.

Think about whether your current situation is what you really want. Ask yourself if this is the kind of partnership you had hoped for. It’s okay to want more from your relationship and to seek happiness for yourself. If you’re not happy with how things are, don’t hesitate to make a change. Trust yourself to make decisions that are best for you.

Set clear boundaries.

Make it clear what behavior is unacceptable to you and set boundaries for future situations. Make sure that both of you are on the same page when it comes to priorities and commitments. If he doesn’t respect your boundaries, it’s a big red flag that you shouldn’t ignore.

Prioritize yourself.

Decide if you want this kind of marriage. Ask yourself if that’s how you imagined your future with this man. Put your needs first and don’t feel guilty for not thinking «the right thoughts». If you aren’t fine with what you have now, don’t hesitate to speak up or change things.

Try socializing more.

No doubt, your husband’s behavior was unacceptable. However, you could have turned the tables and partied with your friends too. If that doesn’t fit into the type of relationship you desire, then you may need to consider other options. It could be that it’s too early for marriage, or there may be underlying communication or compatibility issues.

Life often throws unexpected and funny moments our way that stick with us for years. In this article, we picked 10 stories from people who probably still laugh about what happened to them with their friends and family.

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