What´s you husband thinking about the two kids as couple? If he is against too you should do a paternity test (is it called so? Sorry I´m german). And you really should talk to your husband about your suspicions.
My Husband Fathered His Best Friend’s Kids, and Now We’re Facing Disastrous Consequences
Our reader, Mia, 42, has recently penned a letter to our editorial, sharing her mind-stirring story. The woman found herself in such an extraordinary family situation that she cried for help and advice in her heartfelt letter to us. Mia has strong suspicions that her husband of 22 years, Harry, has fathered his best friend’s kids. But this is not the end of the story, and the further it gets, the more dramatic the events are becoming.
Mia wrote a letter to us and she couldn’t hold her emotions inside.
Mia, 42, has always thought that she had an ideal and robust marriage. She and her husband, Harry, 45, had been living in full harmony when one day everything changed drastically not only for them but for their 2 kids.
The woman wrote us a letter where she shared her mind-boggling story with us in detail. She asked us to publish it and she’s sincerely hoping for our readers’ opinions and advice, even if there will be some criticism, the woman is totally ready to take it.
Mia opened her letter, saying, “My husband, Harry, and I, have known each other for ages. We met in college and have been inseparable since then. We have 2 wonderful kids, Kaylee, 14, and Sophia, 17. We’ve been having a happy and normal life throughout all these years, and our kids have been raised in love and care. I always thought that Kaylee and Sophia had a very good example of a good family from us, their parents, but turned out that our family has always been far from ideal.”
Mia had some very grounded suspicions about her husband’s best friend, Amy, and her kids.
Mia wrote, “My husband has a best friend, Amy. She’s never been in a committed relationship, just
occasionally dating. She doesn’t even know the fathers of her 3 children. We supported Amy
financially and emotionally. One day, I discovered that my husband may be the father of Amy’s kids, but what shocked me to death was that our kids soon became involved in this drama, too.”
Mia explained, “I had serious reasons for suspecting that there was something very unhealthy about my husband’s relationship with Amy. There’s a close friendship between Harry and Amy, and at first, I began to suspect that my hubby may be the father of at least one, if not all, of Amy’s kids, given the lack of other committed relationships in Amy’s life. I had doubts and I struggled with the idea of Harry being unfaithful because we did have this strong family bond and both our and Amy’s children were growing up together.
After our youngest child’s birth, we decided Harry should have a vasectomy. Surprisingly, since then, Amy didn’t get pregnant again, making me question the timing of all these events. ”
Mia’s suspicions were growing even stronger.
Mia wrote, “Harry regularly visited his friend, Amy, and her kids. He happily took on a fatherly role, which seemed very suspicious to me. More than that, I even noticed similarities in appearances between our kids and Amy’s offspring, such as similar allergies and even physical traits. This all led me to question the possibility of Harry being the biological father.
I had been keeping my suspicions about their relationship to myself because I was afraid that my concerns would make me the ‘bad woman’ and harm both of our families.”
Things are getting more and more dramatic in Mia’s family.
Mia wrote, “I’ve been living like on the top of a volcano that’s going to erupt, all these years. And now, another challenge has come to my family.
Amy’s eldest son, Todd, who’s 18 years old, suddenly started having feelings for our daughter, Sophia. They’ve been growing up being very close, and they’ve always been good friends. I never objected to their friendship, despite my personal concerns about my husband and Todd’s mother.
But recently, Todd invited Sophia on a date, and later, Sophia approached me and shared that they had their first kiss. I am extremely alarmed by the turn in their relationship and, provided that I do have very strong suspicions about them being half-siblings, I can’t sleep peacefully at night now. What should I do?”
And here’s yet another mind-boggling confession from a woman, who is totally against her sister’s maternity. The woman wrote that she wished her sister to be infertile for the rest of her days, and explained her reasons for this evil wish.