Who Sigma Males Are, and Why They’re So Popular

You may have heard of a confident and bossy alpha male once or twice in your life. It seems like this personality type is the center of both men’s and women’s attention. Men are taught to behave like alphas, however, there are some who don’t care about the rules and still manage to be attractive. So, believe it or not, alpha males may not be all they’re cracked up to be.

Bright Side is introducing you to another type, known as the sigma male.

What a sigma male is

A sigma male is a man who doesn’t need validation from other people. He’s not loud or brash but calm and collected. A sigma male is an introverted but confident guy. Sigmas are outside the usual and they don’t typically fit into groups because they themselves are uncommon.

Alpha male vs sigma male

Sigma and alpha males are equal and share many common characteristics. They’re both confident in their life choices and aim high. The main difference lies in their attitude. Sigmas choose to sit outside the hierarchy, while Alphas prefer to be at the top of it. The latter achieve success by climbing the hierarchy ladder. Sigmas, on the other hand, don’t belong to any tribe. They do everything on their own.

Traits of a sigma male

• They don’t care about expectations.
  Alphas stand at the top, betas are followers, and sigmas, well, simply don’t fit the mold. Hierarchy is nothing for them, and all the norms and trends that society (and alphas in particular) set are meaningless to sigmas. You can’t tell them how to dress or how to act. They do what they want.

• They’re rule breakers.
  Just like alphas, sigma males struggle with authority. Sigmas are usually self-employed and hold peace and flexibility in high regard. It’s better for them to work on their own because they have no trouble managing their time and organizing themselves.

• They don’t seek validation.
  Sigma males don’t rely on luxuries to feel complete and successful. They don’t try to validate themselves with expensive stuff because they understand that materialistic things can’t substitute for self-worth. So they drive whatever they like, wear whatever they prefer, and don’t do what alphas dictate them to do. “You do you” is their motto.

• They don’t open up to everyone.
  Sigmas don’t boast about their achievements or big dreams on social media. Their passions are private. People often find them cagey and secretive. It takes a lot of time to get to know sigmas. They don’t feel the need to share their personal information. They need ego boosts and validation like fish need bicycles.

• They’re leaders that remain humble.
  Sigma males are lone wolves, however, given the right circumstances, they turn into powerful leaders. They inspire others with their passion and dedication. Sigmas in high positions are never high and mighty, which is why they’re respected.

• They prioritize their own lifestyle.
  Sigma males are picky about their routines and nothing is worse for them than a controlling person. They don’t adhere to other people’s expectations. Sigmas change only if they truly wish to.

• They’re confident introverts.
  Sigmas don’t like being in the limelight and prefer spending time alone. Although sigmas often go unnoticed, they have just as much confidence as alphas. The only thing that sets them apart is alphas’ extraversion.

• Personal space is vital.
  Sigma males require a lot of personal space to satisfy their aim to learn and achieve. They can suddenly make radical changes, like disappear in order to pursue their passion. Sigmas don’t let anyone stand in their way.

Why they’re so popular

A sigma male has a veil of mystery around him, which makes him intriguing. It’s hard to ignore his intelligence and independence. Sigmas never follow the crowd and don’t seek approval. This is what makes this type so appealing to both men and women. On the other hand, it might just be another trend that will pass on its own.

The definition of a sigma male has made a lot of fuss online. Some men think it’s ridiculous while others look for ways to become one. Do you believe that men can be classified as alphas, betas, and sigmas?