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“Hi, Bright Side
I had never planned on having a cat until my friend gifted me Oliver 12 years ago. Since then, Oliver became more than a cat to me, he’s a real family member, he’s like a kid to me.
My stepson, Luke, 8, has recently moved in with us, after his bio mom passed away from a heart failure. The boy and I don’t get along, despite all my efforts to bond with him. Luke likes pets, but since he doesn’t accept me, he has never shown any affection for Oliver, too. One day, Oliver accidentally messed with Luke’s favorite book. It’s an old, worn-out book of fairy tales that Luke already knows by heart.
Honestly, I didn’t treat it as something extraordinary. Recently, I came home from a work shift and, to my shock, I found Luke angry and locking my cat outside. I immediately let Oliver back in and, in anger, yelled at Luke, told him he was grounded, and took his phone away. He left crying. To my surprise, my family, including my husband, called me cruel, saying I should have handled it calmly and that I was prioritizing my ‘silly cat’ over Luke. Now my husband is still waiting for an apology, but I won’t give one. I was only standing up for Oliver. I honestly don’t think I’m guilty, what should I do to erase this tension in my family and settle peace with everyone?”
I see why luke probably like you , from easily you dismissed his feelings and the cat messing up his favorite book ! I don't think you really want him there!
A dog eared, worn out book that is memorized is often a dearly treasured book. He is 8 years old, and it's highly unlikely that he has the skills to cope with his mother's death, a new living situation and a step mom. He desperately needs therapy and so do you. If you can't commit to this child and family then leave now before you do any more damage and don't have children. You lack the basic empathy a decent parent must have.
Just divorce him it's not worth staying in that family and tell him,
"good luck trying to find an actual wife because your son will never accept any of them, you might as well stick with one night stands, because that's the only way you'll be able to get intimacy at all"
The child needs to be taught how to behave around animals.
He's 8. You need parenting classes, and yes, you need to apologize. Your cat is fine, but your cat is not going to be fine if you persist in this evil stepmom routine.
You seem to forget how Serial Killers start??
Did you think that maybe that book was gifted to him from his mom and that's pretty much all he has left of her? Since it was old and worn out and he knows the stories by heart, he and his mom probably read from it every night. He's 8. He would not be doing that by himself.
Also, Oliver has been with you for 12 years. He us staking his claim on you. This new human has Oliver upset and jealous. When does a cat ever mess with a book? Cats can be devious and psychotic. Did it ever occur to you that for an animal lover, why does your son, not the boy, not like the cat? My dad had a cat. He could pet it all day. Anyone else, three times and three times only. 1.2.3. If you passed 3, the cat would eat your hand. Your first mistake is seeing him as The Boy. He's your son and he's hurting. Second mistake is not I producing Oliver to him slowly and with extra treats. Oliver has been through an ordeal to only having you to sharing you with your husband and now another human! Your two kids are squabbling. Happens. But, you have to care and love them both. Oliver needs to be punished and to be honest kicking him out of the house is lenient. He wasn't kicked/hit/spanked.
I.love cats but you have a grieving child whose property was destroyed and you take the cat’s side. I don’t think he should have put the cat outside but yelling at an 8 year old who’s mom died is cruel
So many people don't or won't understand that our pet(s) means so much to us. There is no guarantee that this marriage will last but your cat will always love you and protect you. You two has a bond and people should respect that. You don't think cats and any other animals have feelings ? Animals has more sense and pure love than some people. Speaking from my personal experiences.
Doesn't matter. You are completely missing the point. If OP has not treated her stepson's loss as no big deal he probably wouldn't have retaliated against the cat. She needs to step up and understand this child's whole world has fallen apart. If she wants to stay married she needs to understand that she needs to protect her stepson as much as the cat.
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Jeepers commenters, how about a little empathy for all involved? Cat, wrong, kid, wrong, mom, wrong. Hey Dad! How about showing up as a pet lover, parent and husband? You need to take it down a notch and be the voice of reason and calm.
Dear Martha,
Thank you so much for trusting us with your story. We know it takes courage to write about moments that feel raw and unresolved.
It sounds like the real challenge here isn’t just “cat vs. child.” It’s that both Oliver and Luke are, in very different ways, competing for the same role in your emotional world. Oliver has been your “baby” for over a decade, and now a grieving boy has entered that space unexpectedly. That overlap can make even small incidents feel like turf wars.
Instead of framing this as choosing between them, try creating shared rituals that let them both “win.” For example, let Luke be the one to feed Oliver his dinner each evening, or read one of his fairy tales aloud with Oliver on his lap. Make it clear that you trust Luke with Oliver’s care, not to reward bad behavior, but to give him the power to repair trust with you and the cat. Children often respond better when they feel needed rather than corrected.
By turning Oliver into a bridge instead of a barrier, you might find Luke warming up to both of you at the same time, and that’s a victory that no grounding or lecture could ever achieve.
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you're the adult here, you should've handled it better. The boy is only 8 and was just trying to process the anger he felt when you dismissed his favorite book.
